"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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your GF kissing another Girl, PROBLEM?

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mrRuckus

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The other night i went out with my girlfriend and her fat ugly friend Liz. Somehow before we even get to the bar the discussion came up about this sort of thing (actually because the ugly friend had hung out with my gf back when she was in college and knows drunk stories and thinks it's hilarious that one night this lesbian girl kissed my gf and thinks it's a good idea to tell the current bf for whatever ****ed up fat chick logic). So anyway it's a great start to the night because i'm meeting Liz for the first time and in the first 10 minutes she completely disgusts me both mentally and physically and i'm not even drunk yet to guilt-free verbally assault her too much.

Liz insists that girls can kiss girls and it's not cheating but guys can't kiss guys.

Luckily my gf says that's bull**** like I say since it's sexual and you should only be sexual with your bf or gf unless you have some oddball prearranged open relationship..otherwise it's cheating.

I had an ex who would be on Liz's side. One night while we were dating she called me up giggling about making out with a girl in front of a bunch of guys at a party because they "told them to"... and was confused when i was pissed off.

Where the hell do girls get these ideas?

On a side note.. am i a fatist if i write off fat girls' opinions firstly based on the fact they're fat and have attitudes and thus have no right to opinions? Just curious =p
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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When we're out and I'm drinking, I usually encourage my girlfriend to hook up with other girls. Most of the time I'm 'recruiting' girls. So needless to say it doesn't bother me that she kisses other girls. However she doesn't exactly enjoy it and wouldn't do it if I wasn't pressuring the hell out of her.

I don't know how I'd feel in your case where it sounds like she is proud as hell to get drunk and become an attention wh0re. I think I'd be more annoyed that she's trying so hard, more than I'd be threatened that she's going to leave me for a chick.

Blitz
 
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