"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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your GF kissing another Girl, PROBLEM?

mrRuckus

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The other night i went out with my girlfriend and her fat ugly friend Liz. Somehow before we even get to the bar the discussion came up about this sort of thing (actually because the ugly friend had hung out with my gf back when she was in college and knows drunk stories and thinks it's hilarious that one night this lesbian girl kissed my gf and thinks it's a good idea to tell the current bf for whatever ****ed up fat chick logic). So anyway it's a great start to the night because i'm meeting Liz for the first time and in the first 10 minutes she completely disgusts me both mentally and physically and i'm not even drunk yet to guilt-free verbally assault her too much.

Liz insists that girls can kiss girls and it's not cheating but guys can't kiss guys.

Luckily my gf says that's bull**** like I say since it's sexual and you should only be sexual with your bf or gf unless you have some oddball prearranged open relationship..otherwise it's cheating.

I had an ex who would be on Liz's side. One night while we were dating she called me up giggling about making out with a girl in front of a bunch of guys at a party because they "told them to"... and was confused when i was pissed off.

Where the hell do girls get these ideas?

On a side note.. am i a fatist if i write off fat girls' opinions firstly based on the fact they're fat and have attitudes and thus have no right to opinions? Just curious =p
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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xblitz44x

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When we're out and I'm drinking, I usually encourage my girlfriend to hook up with other girls. Most of the time I'm 'recruiting' girls. So needless to say it doesn't bother me that she kisses other girls. However she doesn't exactly enjoy it and wouldn't do it if I wasn't pressuring the hell out of her.

I don't know how I'd feel in your case where it sounds like she is proud as hell to get drunk and become an attention wh0re. I think I'd be more annoyed that she's trying so hard, more than I'd be threatened that she's going to leave me for a chick.

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