Hey what's up. I'm wondering what to do right now...there's this girl who goes to my school and I think she's pretty hot (7.5-8) but my friends don't think she is. I haven't really met anyone else who thinks she's that hot...I'm wondering, should I ask her out? Is one girl (who I'm going to have to PAY for, and hang out with, and just all around spend a lot of my time for her...) really worth getting made fun of by the guys? I'm not scared of ridicule or of rejection (from the girl) but I'm trying to figure out what's best for me socially...
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Your friends don't think she's hot...
- Thread starter i am me
- Start date
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
TonyTheTigerOI
Master Don Juan
They arent good friends if they tell you girls you are interested in are ugly. That simple.
Socially - keeping your name in the paper is pretty important.
If you have a few other prospects, id work on those... from a social standpoint. But if you are inexperienced, and no offense, but it sounds like you are... I would just go out with this girl a few times, get some playtime under your belt.
Socially - keeping your name in the paper is pretty important.
If you have a few other prospects, id work on those... from a social standpoint. But if you are inexperienced, and no offense, but it sounds like you are... I would just go out with this girl a few times, get some playtime under your belt.
I forget to say something...I never told anyone I liked her so I'm not sure how they'd respond. They would probably tease me but they wouldn't "outcast" me. Of course they'll still be my friends...it's just a "guy thing" to make fun of your friends. I guess I'm just feeling unsure about this girl since I'm the only one who I know who thinks she's hot.
/\And yeah I'm inexperienced, but I'm not as desperate as that first post might've sounded. I play it pretty cool and I could probably get with one of those "popular+hot" girls if they didn't have boyfriends already.
/\And yeah I'm inexperienced, but I'm not as desperate as that first post might've sounded. I play it pretty cool and I could probably get with one of those "popular+hot" girls if they didn't have boyfriends already.
California Love
Master Don Juan
You find her beautiful. What more is there to say?
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
nzalan
Don Juan
Yeh, it only matters what you think. Are you attracted to her because you like her, or are you attracted to her because you want to impress your friends? You need to work out what's really important - your feelings, or those of your friends. Here's a hint: it's not your friends feelings that are important here. Unless, of course, you're simply out to impress those friends with your choice of girls. In which case, lose the biatch and only go for whoever your friends tell you to go for.
check_mate_kid_uk
Master Don Juan
thats intresting because my bestfreind does not have the same taste as me but has simular taste in girls.
i thought his ex was HB8 he tihnks she is HB9, with a girl i was after but droped because shes a bit of a b!tch well i thought she was 8-9 he thought she was 7-8
but its partly because of what you value, a girl im after now, he said to me that her body is 10 out of 10 but her face is 6 out of 10 so gave her 6-7 in total.
i think her body is 9 and her face 7 but because i think those to parts are equaly important then i think she is an 8+.
he thinks a nice face is more important then a great body so is giving her 7 max.
i forgot the point i was trying to make but basicly its not important weather your freinds like her as much as you do. As long as she isnt actualy ugly.
i thought his ex was HB8 he tihnks she is HB9, with a girl i was after but droped because shes a bit of a b!tch well i thought she was 8-9 he thought she was 7-8
but its partly because of what you value, a girl im after now, he said to me that her body is 10 out of 10 but her face is 6 out of 10 so gave her 6-7 in total.
i think her body is 9 and her face 7 but because i think those to parts are equaly important then i think she is an 8+.
he thinks a nice face is more important then a great body so is giving her 7 max.
i forgot the point i was trying to make but basicly its not important weather your freinds like her as much as you do. As long as she isnt actualy ugly.
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oakraiderz2
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Get some balls