Hey what's up. I'm wondering what to do right now...there's this girl who goes to my school and I think she's pretty hot (7.5-8) but my friends don't think she is. I haven't really met anyone else who thinks she's that hot...I'm wondering, should I ask her out? Is one girl (who I'm going to have to PAY for, and hang out with, and just all around spend a lot of my time for her...) really worth getting made fun of by the guys? I'm not scared of ridicule or of rejection (from the girl) but I'm trying to figure out what's best for me socially...
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Your friends don't think she's hot...
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- Start date
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
TonyTheTigerOI
Master Don Juan
They arent good friends if they tell you girls you are interested in are ugly. That simple.
Socially - keeping your name in the paper is pretty important.
If you have a few other prospects, id work on those... from a social standpoint. But if you are inexperienced, and no offense, but it sounds like you are... I would just go out with this girl a few times, get some playtime under your belt.
Socially - keeping your name in the paper is pretty important.
If you have a few other prospects, id work on those... from a social standpoint. But if you are inexperienced, and no offense, but it sounds like you are... I would just go out with this girl a few times, get some playtime under your belt.
I forget to say something...I never told anyone I liked her so I'm not sure how they'd respond. They would probably tease me but they wouldn't "outcast" me. Of course they'll still be my friends...it's just a "guy thing" to make fun of your friends. I guess I'm just feeling unsure about this girl since I'm the only one who I know who thinks she's hot.
/\And yeah I'm inexperienced, but I'm not as desperate as that first post might've sounded. I play it pretty cool and I could probably get with one of those "popular+hot" girls if they didn't have boyfriends already.
/\And yeah I'm inexperienced, but I'm not as desperate as that first post might've sounded. I play it pretty cool and I could probably get with one of those "popular+hot" girls if they didn't have boyfriends already.
California Love
Master Don Juan
You find her beautiful. What more is there to say?
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
nzalan
Don Juan
Yeh, it only matters what you think. Are you attracted to her because you like her, or are you attracted to her because you want to impress your friends? You need to work out what's really important - your feelings, or those of your friends. Here's a hint: it's not your friends feelings that are important here. Unless, of course, you're simply out to impress those friends with your choice of girls. In which case, lose the biatch and only go for whoever your friends tell you to go for.
check_mate_kid_uk
Master Don Juan
thats intresting because my bestfreind does not have the same taste as me but has simular taste in girls.
i thought his ex was HB8 he tihnks she is HB9, with a girl i was after but droped because shes a bit of a b!tch well i thought she was 8-9 he thought she was 7-8
but its partly because of what you value, a girl im after now, he said to me that her body is 10 out of 10 but her face is 6 out of 10 so gave her 6-7 in total.
i think her body is 9 and her face 7 but because i think those to parts are equaly important then i think she is an 8+.
he thinks a nice face is more important then a great body so is giving her 7 max.
i forgot the point i was trying to make but basicly its not important weather your freinds like her as much as you do. As long as she isnt actualy ugly.
i thought his ex was HB8 he tihnks she is HB9, with a girl i was after but droped because shes a bit of a b!tch well i thought she was 8-9 he thought she was 7-8
but its partly because of what you value, a girl im after now, he said to me that her body is 10 out of 10 but her face is 6 out of 10 so gave her 6-7 in total.
i think her body is 9 and her face 7 but because i think those to parts are equaly important then i think she is an 8+.
he thinks a nice face is more important then a great body so is giving her 7 max.
i forgot the point i was trying to make but basicly its not important weather your freinds like her as much as you do. As long as she isnt actualy ugly.
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oakraiderz2
Master Don Juan
Get some balls