"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Your experiences with game in suburban areas, any advice?

HowardHughesDicaprio

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I might end up spending some time in the future at a suburb which has a population of around 40,000 people. Now personally I have not heard of much advice pertaining to the suburbs but I would like to know from you guys who have experience. One thing that I think it would be useful for me to mention is that I am a minority (North African, swarthy look and I do not look White) and not sure how big of a barrier that becomes. The suburb I am going to (like most suburbs) is going to be full of financially well off White people from the reading I have been doing on it.

Would love to hear some advice SoSuave!
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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jurry

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You're too concerned with locations, hypotheticals, and generalizations. If you end up in a suburb, ok, go talk to girls and see what happens. If you end up in a city and people are different race than you, ok talk to girls and see what happens. You can discuss and analyze and try and remove risk all day long, but in the end action is all that matters. Let your mind go, walk out the door and approach the girl.
 

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That's all he ever talks about. Race, race, race....
 

HowardHughesDicaprio

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jurry said:
You're too concerned with locations, hypotheticals, and generalizations. If you end up in a suburb, ok, go talk to girls and see what happens. If you end up in a city and people are different race than you, ok talk to girls and see what happens. You can discuss and analyze and try and remove risk all day long, but in the end action is all that matters. Let your mind go, walk out the door and approach the girl.
Because this **** matters dumbass, that's why.

I would feel my chances to be much higher getting laid in a progressive area with diversity than a suburb but I have to move to a ****ing suburb soon so I want to know how to get around that ****. You have fun being a minority going to a bar full of Neo-Nazis and hitting on their women, after you have been beaten up say the same **** you are saying now.

That is the ****ing problem with PUA Forums, half of these imbeciles have no life experiences and have yet to step outside of the basement of their parents' house yet feel that they can give advice.

Look its El Payaso, the ****tiest poster on this forum.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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