"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Your experiences with game in suburban areas, any advice?

HowardHughesDicaprio

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I might end up spending some time in the future at a suburb which has a population of around 40,000 people. Now personally I have not heard of much advice pertaining to the suburbs but I would like to know from you guys who have experience. One thing that I think it would be useful for me to mention is that I am a minority (North African, swarthy look and I do not look White) and not sure how big of a barrier that becomes. The suburb I am going to (like most suburbs) is going to be full of financially well off White people from the reading I have been doing on it.

Would love to hear some advice SoSuave!
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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jurry

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You're too concerned with locations, hypotheticals, and generalizations. If you end up in a suburb, ok, go talk to girls and see what happens. If you end up in a city and people are different race than you, ok talk to girls and see what happens. You can discuss and analyze and try and remove risk all day long, but in the end action is all that matters. Let your mind go, walk out the door and approach the girl.
 

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That's all he ever talks about. Race, race, race....
 

HowardHughesDicaprio

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jurry said:
You're too concerned with locations, hypotheticals, and generalizations. If you end up in a suburb, ok, go talk to girls and see what happens. If you end up in a city and people are different race than you, ok talk to girls and see what happens. You can discuss and analyze and try and remove risk all day long, but in the end action is all that matters. Let your mind go, walk out the door and approach the girl.
Because this **** matters dumbass, that's why.

I would feel my chances to be much higher getting laid in a progressive area with diversity than a suburb but I have to move to a ****ing suburb soon so I want to know how to get around that ****. You have fun being a minority going to a bar full of Neo-Nazis and hitting on their women, after you have been beaten up say the same **** you are saying now.

That is the ****ing problem with PUA Forums, half of these imbeciles have no life experiences and have yet to step outside of the basement of their parents' house yet feel that they can give advice.

Look its El Payaso, the ****tiest poster on this forum.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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