"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Your experiences with game in suburban areas, any advice?

HowardHughesDicaprio

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I might end up spending some time in the future at a suburb which has a population of around 40,000 people. Now personally I have not heard of much advice pertaining to the suburbs but I would like to know from you guys who have experience. One thing that I think it would be useful for me to mention is that I am a minority (North African, swarthy look and I do not look White) and not sure how big of a barrier that becomes. The suburb I am going to (like most suburbs) is going to be full of financially well off White people from the reading I have been doing on it.

Would love to hear some advice SoSuave!
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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jurry

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You're too concerned with locations, hypotheticals, and generalizations. If you end up in a suburb, ok, go talk to girls and see what happens. If you end up in a city and people are different race than you, ok talk to girls and see what happens. You can discuss and analyze and try and remove risk all day long, but in the end action is all that matters. Let your mind go, walk out the door and approach the girl.
 

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That's all he ever talks about. Race, race, race....
 

HowardHughesDicaprio

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jurry said:
You're too concerned with locations, hypotheticals, and generalizations. If you end up in a suburb, ok, go talk to girls and see what happens. If you end up in a city and people are different race than you, ok talk to girls and see what happens. You can discuss and analyze and try and remove risk all day long, but in the end action is all that matters. Let your mind go, walk out the door and approach the girl.
Because this **** matters dumbass, that's why.

I would feel my chances to be much higher getting laid in a progressive area with diversity than a suburb but I have to move to a ****ing suburb soon so I want to know how to get around that ****. You have fun being a minority going to a bar full of Neo-Nazis and hitting on their women, after you have been beaten up say the same **** you are saying now.

That is the ****ing problem with PUA Forums, half of these imbeciles have no life experiences and have yet to step outside of the basement of their parents' house yet feel that they can give advice.

Look its El Payaso, the ****tiest poster on this forum.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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