You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
I'm starting to realize that people on this site have some of the lower standards i've ever seen.Jair213 said:i thought the same.
one of the hottest chicks i know, i find brunettes so attractive
a 10 to me.
http://imageshack.us/photo/my-images/42/h6hf.jpg/
BeginningDJ said:These were pretty much the responses I was expecting to get from this thread.
Most people will take the easy route of criticism. It's this same egocentric approach that I've seen on SoSuave. We are quick to devalue others' opinions because we feel our beliefs are the only right choices.
When I rejoined almost a year ago, I didn't quite the the negativity or ignorance of the posters. Over time, I have identified those that are successful and those that are miserable. Those that fulfill their limitless potential and those that lament in their own shortcomings. Who should you grab advice from? Only your experience on this board will let me make the right decision.
This is the SAME exact approach you must take with women. None of the advice you receive on here will be 100% correct given your situation. What advice should you take then? From your own experiences. This is the only way you can be happy with the outcome. If you succeeded, GREAT. If you failed, you learned from it.
It takes time.
It take patience.
It takes failure.
You will come out with more wisdom, experience and character.
SoSuave can point you in the right direction, but it is up to you to take your own flight.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
This is pretty funny and only a couple have posted any pictures. Are we all afraid of being judged and repressed by internet strangers?Jair213 said:
What dafuq did I just read? Last I checked, some of the smartest people on the planet have been pretty butt ugly, Darwin anyone?Wolfgang D said:And as luck would have it, those who are beautiful are also on average more intelligent. Beauty is a signal of health and intelligence. Science confirms this
Did you even read what the topic is? A HB10 in terms of FACE. Any girl with a hideous face can easily balance with a great body. And its also amateur pictures. Otherwise i would have already shown Draya Michelle.cervantesscthree said:What dafuq did I just read? Last I checked, some of the smartest people on the planet have been pretty butt ugly, Darwin anyone?
I've also just gone through everyone's link and I aint seeing a HB10 (n my eyes) so here my my fellow Don Juans, is what a HB10 looks like (in my opinion, I would say nature's too, but I want to avoid the beef that comes with that statement) http://hiphopwired.com/2013/07/31/bangin-candy-the-amply-curvaceous-hazel-renee-photos/5/ :rockon:
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
What a predictable response. Of course you would bring up some non-attractive person who is intelligent and use that to "prove" me wrong. And you had to cut away the rest of my paragraph, because I predicted exactly that. Do you know what anecdotal evidence is? It means to bring up that one counter-example and claim that the observations from research are therefore wrong.cervantesscthree said:What dafuq did I just read? Last I checked, some of the smartest people on the planet have been pretty butt ugly, Darwin anyone?
I have a friend who is sick despite eating healthy food. That must mean the research that shows that healthy food improves your health is wrong. See what I did there? Anecdotal evidence in order to ignore research.And as luck would have it, those who are beautiful are also on average more intelligent. Beauty is a signal of health and intelligence. Science confirms this, by asking people which faces they consider attractive, and finding that most people reply the same way. And then finding that the bearers of those faces on average have a higher IQ. You can look it up in Google, there are several articles about this. Inevitably followed by angry replies in the comment section to the effect of "How dare you! There is no such thing as beauty! There is no such thing as intelligence! Everyone is beautiful! I know this-and-this person who are so-called ugly but still smart [Cervantes' reply, right there], so therefore I will ignore a mass of evidence about statistical correlation, because that makes me feel better!"
first one is a solid 10Skyy. said:
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Jeez Wolfgang, I thought this thread was a bit humorous clearly not, trust me I already considered everything you've just stated, and I was fully aware of the "research" before making my post and only quoting a bit of yr phrase. I see what you're saying but replying with another scientific answer would a sucked the fun outta the thing. God damn, can we get back to the title of the thread now please... :rockon:Wolfgang D said:What a predictable response. Of course you would bring up some non-attractive person who is intelligent and use that to "prove" me wrong. And you had to cut away the rest of my paragraph, because I predicted exactly that. Do you know what anecdotal evidence is? It means to bring up that one counter-example and claim that the observations from research are therefore wrong.
Although Charles Darwin was actually handsome in his youth, so your example fails. Use Einstein instead like everyone else who doesn't know the name of more than a handful of scientists in history.
Now pay attention. I said there is research that confirms this. And it should be obvious that what we call beauty is an indicator of quality - such an enormous factor as our attraction to certain characteristics, doesn't happen just by coincidence. And as if talking to a child, I will have to point out that among billions of people there will be exceptions, plenty of exceptions, to every rule. But I expect that you will ignore the research and keep relying on anecdotal evidence that lets you ignore the bigger pattern you prefer not to see. It is common.
I have a friend who is sick despite eating healthy food. That must mean the research that shows that healthy food improves your health is wrong. See what I did there? Anecdotal evidence in order to ignore research.
BeginningDJ said:Another thread started getting to this topic so it would be a good idea to start a separate discussion.
Criteria:
Amateur pictures ONLY
No Celebrity / Models
Face ONLY, no body
Why you think she is a 10.
http://imgur.com/aCvtvN5
- Facial symmetry
- Very Minimal Makeup
- Defined Jawline
- Chin Length
- Neck Length
- Dat Nose
:cheer: Let the pedastalization begin! :cheer:
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.