"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I don't know about you guys, but I've noticed that the greatest drawback for me is my emotions. They are usually what stop me from talking to that cutie over there. Anyway, I've been doing something lately to keep myself from being so self-absorbed about what I'm feeling.

Every time an emotion crops up I tell myself "This emotion I'm feeling is one among a bucket load. I have felt it before, I will feel it again. I have felt others, and will feel others, in time, it will pass."

Upon doing this, I feel dynamite, just something I do which some of you may find useful.

Have fun over there,
khanboy
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Just shrug it off...

You should never take the game so seriously in the beginning. After all she doesn't know you yet. You know how good you are!!! Some women will take to you right from the jump. Some will grow on you in time or they won't take to you at all. But don't act like that is the only cute face around. There millions of them in the world to choose from. When it comes to the approach. DONT THINK!!! Shrug your shoulders and do. If it didn't work out shrug your shoulders and leave. I mean you're scared to get hurt? Let me smack you on the back of your hand as hard as I can 10 times. Now that hurts!!! Now make the comparison.
 
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exactly khan. accept your emotions, don't fight them. if u fight ure emotions, they will become stronger

good post
 
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