"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Your eighteen again how do you go about getting sex?
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Scaramouche
Master Don Juan
You're 18 again,learn to Dance,at that age it will come easily...You are a Man of Colour,you have music in your bones,probably move like India rubber...You will be able to pick and choose....Remember Eli,the nimbler they are on the Dance Floor,the better they are in bed!
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First I wanted to say I wouldn't chase a relationship. But its those relationship that taught me me most about women. The experience of falling in love and eventually ending up heartbroken is a valuable lesson.
It's unfair to your younger self to take away learning experiences that made you who you are today.