"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Your eighteen again how do you go about getting sex?
- Thread starter eli77
- Start date
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Scaramouche
Master Don Juan
You're 18 again,learn to Dance,at that age it will come easily...You are a Man of Colour,you have music in your bones,probably move like India rubber...You will be able to pick and choose....Remember Eli,the nimbler they are on the Dance Floor,the better they are in bed!
Gamisch
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First I wanted to say I wouldn't chase a relationship. But its those relationship that taught me me most about women. The experience of falling in love and eventually ending up heartbroken is a valuable lesson.
It's unfair to your younger self to take away learning experiences that made you who you are today.