"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Your effect on her reality

S0LID

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For us guys, we see a beatiful girl and we put alot of value onto her. We see the hour glass shape, perfect features, tanned skin and we want to keep her forever. Thing is, as Mystery says, "beauty is common", there will be thousands more, just like her and better.

Now lets think about things from her perspective. A guy comes upto her and shows all the personality characteristics, probably ones she didnt even know she was attracted to. AFCs are HER REALITY of how a guy is. Now you've come over and put her into YOUR REALITY. If you can do this stuff properly guys, you will be the most amazing guy that she has ever met in her life!

So for us, this girl may be incredible, BUT shes common. Theres one just like her around the corner.

To her on the other hand, you are PRICELESS.

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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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So, if I understand you correctly, you are saying that I should just treat every woman the same way and don't start gushing over her beauty...?
 

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what he ment was that there are pretty woman out there... but 0,5% of the general pop of women really worth something... moreover, the chance of u being with someone who worth **** is greater them with someone who worth ur time... so, u as a guy know that there other fishes in the sea


for a girl, MAN doesn't exist.. maybe her father, maybe... they are all AFC to some extent... so, if she sees an ALIEN (ie: man), it hypnothysis her, cuz she never believed that MAN still existed, neither that she would stand a change with that particular man...

Enough to say, she won't leave what is so precious... and this is also true for us, if we have the wisdom to realise that we indeed found one of those 0,5%...

u would work for things to work out between u guys, cuz ur not dumb..

for last, the key is to have enough experience, knowlegde and wisdom to realise what u have in ur hands, and this works the same for women...

i'm still trying to find one of those 0,5%
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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