"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Your DEFINITIVE guide to BRINGING a woman HOME from the club

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I don't think I'd ever start by walking up to a woman, asking her how her night's going, and then immediately walking away...but the advice about warming up socially all day beforehand and going to the gym that day, that's solid, I'm going to start doing that. What is the idea behind step 8?
 
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Exhumed said:
I don't think I'd ever start by walking up to a woman, asking her how her night's going, and then immediately walking away...but the advice about warming up socially all day beforehand and going to the gym that day, that's solid, I'm going to start doing that. What is the idea behind step 8?
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Step 8 (to recap), says:
If you've done everything above correctly, women will notice you and will look at you. Scan the room with your eyes and approach women who've given you eye contact by simply saying, "How are you enjoying yourself?" Be careful that you're not interrupting her on the dancefloor or while she's already engaged in conversation! After her reply, tell her you'll see her later on and politely excuse yourself. (other women will notice this...this is the point!)

The "idea" behind Step 8, is you want to establish a good rapport with the women in the club. Women are highly competitive and if you are seen fraternizing and garnering positive attention with women in the spot, other women will vie for your attention. I've had many-a-night where a variety of women are "choosing" on me. (Showing signs of interest such as consistent glances/stares, touching, preening, etc). Plus once you've already spoken to her, even thought brief, it makes it easier to swoop by and just take her hand and dance. Later in the night, you'll look like a superstar if you've gained a rapport with all the attractive women in the club. Also, you'll be able to gauge which one has the most interest in you.
 
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