"Blank Mind on Dates? She's Dropping Hints You Keep Missing"

The plates get cleared and the silence lands like a brick. You can feel her waiting. Your brain offers up your commute, your job, the weather — topics that have ended more second dates than bad breath.

Here's what most guys never learn: women hand out free conversational material all night long. Tiny clues about what they actually want to discuss. Catch them and you never run out of things to say — because she's telling you what to say next.

Rule 4 of the "22 Rules" trains your ear to catch every single one.

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Your clubbing experience

Island

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I went to my first proper clubbing experience lately. I had social proof, was in a better state than most, and it was a decent event.

Thing is, it didn't really meet my expectations of what an outdoor party would be. Alcohol consumption was limited. There was no wild behaviour from chicks. In fact the only chick I saw - ahem - expressing herself very freely and sexily was the sister of a friend. (Sorry JY! :D ) People stuck together in their own groups, dancing, talking, doing their own thing. Guys went in with their girls and girls went in with their circles. I didn't see much mixing or interaction.

How was YOUR clubbing experience like?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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backbreaker

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that's how most clubs I go to are now, girls are ether dykes or they bring the entire US army with them, or they come with BF's. I am getting to the point where I usually go to the club late, late at night, after I do something else, like If I had friends over my place and they left at 2am, I would go to the club for around an hour and a half just to dance off the drinks I had eariler.

Bars are alot better for me, alot.
 

bootlegger

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Originally posted by Island
I went to my first proper clubbing experience lately. I had social proof, was in a better state than most, and it was a decent event.

Thing is, it didn't really meet my expectations of what an outdoor party would be. Alcohol consumption was limited. There was no wild behaviour from chicks. In fact the only chick I saw - ahem - expressing herself very freely and sexily was the sister of a friend. (Sorry JY! :D ) People stuck together in their own groups, dancing, talking, doing their own thing. Guys went in with their girls and girls went in with their circles. I didn't see much mixing or interaction.

How was YOUR clubbing experience like?
That sounds like every HS party I ever went to. A total Sausage factory.
 

Omega

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Bring a wing and break the groups.
 

Le Parisien

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If it's a college town club or something similar that attracts a lots of people who already know each other, then you are already half way fvcked...:(
Unless you have special things going for you: you are VERY good-looking, or you are a VERY GOOD DANCER (so good that you draw the whole clubs' attention), you came in with more than 4 HB9+ who are all over you etc...
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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manicmaximum

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i just go to clubs to let loose and have a good time now (picking up just being cherry on top).

you have to negotiate with yourself whether you like clubs because you see it as a pick-up venue...or if you can just have a good time with your friends dancing and being rowdy.
 
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