I wrote this piece of article 2 yrs back related to Self Defense but you know it's sooooo applies to dating too...
I just posted it in my blog and thought this would be good idea to share it with you guys.
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wat happends in our bodies when we r under threat?
it's very much chemistry.this chart will gave u pretty good idea wat happens rite there in ur bodies..
When subjected to a threat, such as real conflict, your body will release chemicals and these will affect your body and mind in certain specific ways.
Bruce Siddle has studied this phenomenon, and found that heart rate, measured in beats per minute, is a good barometer of the other effects.Here are the rules of chemical fear:
If you get scared enough that your heart rate goes over about 115 BPM, you will start to lose your fine motor skills. That means your precision grabs and locks are gone.
About 155 BPM, complex motor skills deteriorate- you lose your patterns, combinations, traps and sweeps.
About 175BPM, planning and thinking are severely compromised. You lose your near vision, peripheral vision and depth perception.
Your hearing will deaden or be lost.
Above 175, if there is anything in your bladder, you will lose it. Most will freeze or curl up in a ball and wait for mommy to save them.
Only the grossest of physical activity is possible- running and flailing. In short, the more desperately you need your skills, the less you will be able to rely on them.
When it is for real, you will do much, much worse than in practice. The belief that people improve under stress is a myth. (THE IMPROVEMENT THINGS HAPPENS ONLY IN NON-LIFE THREATS SITUATIONS)
How the hell this related to Dating for Shy Guy?
You see it doesn't matter if the danger is physical or psychological, Your body will always react in the same possible manner...
Now if you are shy guy... this is wat happens to you.
when you see women, your heart rate goes up to 115 bpm, and you start loosing control over
your tongue.
when you start talking to women(she starts talking to you, let's say she got sweeped by your looks
), your heart rate instantly jumps up to 155 bpm and you just stand there... looking...
Now if the Woman is Seriously HOT, your body skips the second step and ur heart beat goes upto 175bpm... now only toilet can rescue you....
So if you sit at home practice talking to women alone, you'll go through every step... because you are not used to(not proper training).
So How you can improve this situation?
Daily practice. No no.. Daily practice in Tense Situation.
So you need to practice daily, talk to lots of women, talks to lots of Hot Women. Because in real you'd perform worse than your practice. So we make our practice Real.
understand your body and you'll go long way...
WhoAmI
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I just posted it in my blog and thought this would be good idea to share it with you guys.
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wat happends in our bodies when we r under threat?
it's very much chemistry.this chart will gave u pretty good idea wat happens rite there in ur bodies..
When subjected to a threat, such as real conflict, your body will release chemicals and these will affect your body and mind in certain specific ways.
Bruce Siddle has studied this phenomenon, and found that heart rate, measured in beats per minute, is a good barometer of the other effects.Here are the rules of chemical fear:
If you get scared enough that your heart rate goes over about 115 BPM, you will start to lose your fine motor skills. That means your precision grabs and locks are gone.
About 155 BPM, complex motor skills deteriorate- you lose your patterns, combinations, traps and sweeps.
About 175BPM, planning and thinking are severely compromised. You lose your near vision, peripheral vision and depth perception.
Your hearing will deaden or be lost.
Above 175, if there is anything in your bladder, you will lose it. Most will freeze or curl up in a ball and wait for mommy to save them.
Only the grossest of physical activity is possible- running and flailing. In short, the more desperately you need your skills, the less you will be able to rely on them.
When it is for real, you will do much, much worse than in practice. The belief that people improve under stress is a myth. (THE IMPROVEMENT THINGS HAPPENS ONLY IN NON-LIFE THREATS SITUATIONS)
How the hell this related to Dating for Shy Guy?
You see it doesn't matter if the danger is physical or psychological, Your body will always react in the same possible manner...
Now if you are shy guy... this is wat happens to you.
when you see women, your heart rate goes up to 115 bpm, and you start loosing control over
your tongue.
when you start talking to women(she starts talking to you, let's say she got sweeped by your looks
), your heart rate instantly jumps up to 155 bpm and you just stand there... looking... Now if the Woman is Seriously HOT, your body skips the second step and ur heart beat goes upto 175bpm... now only toilet can rescue you....
So if you sit at home practice talking to women alone, you'll go through every step... because you are not used to(not proper training).
So How you can improve this situation?
Daily practice. No no.. Daily practice in Tense Situation.
So you need to practice daily, talk to lots of women, talks to lots of Hot Women. Because in real you'd perform worse than your practice. So we make our practice Real.
understand your body and you'll go long way...
WhoAmI
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