"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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your best opener/"break the ice" lines

Legionarius

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alright so I feel like Im lacking in the "opener/breaking the ice" category. If introduced to a girl I do perfectly fine...its just that I can't walk right up to a stranger and start talking...What are some lines/Idea's that you guys found most useful?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Rhino22

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Lol honestly I have only approached one girl really and it was at the bookstore. I said, "So you come here often?" Haha...and she ended up asking me for my name, put it in her phone and added me on facebook...then gave me her number without me asking for it. She was hot, too.
 

jdollarthegreat

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It's not what u say but how u say it and you gotta have swagger and confidence as well. But if a girl is looking at u say something like "I see you peaking but you ain't speaking" that'll get her attention. And if she looks at you and smiles or something just keep at her until u get action, say something like "a second look will get you hooked tho" thats ya opener and when she gives you some action just find out her name and say something like you'd like to get to know her better and exchange numbers or somethin, simple as that. You don't wanna give away too much of yaself u just wanna get her number and bounce, only time I believe you should have extended convos and do all this talkin is if you trying to pop off a one nighter or something ya dig.
 

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I like to say hi! with a big smile.

But my friend... he likes to take a lint ball out of his pants pocket and pretend to pull it off of a girls shirt... and be like "eww gross!!!"

This is usually hilarious and its a good neg.

good luck.
 

Remy

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I like to ask random proverbial questions

I.E. "Hey, if you could have all the money in the world, or a kiss from George W. Bush which would you choose?"

no matter WHAT their answer is, I always bust on them for it and go from there... hope this helps!
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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