"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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your best opener/"break the ice" lines

Legionarius

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alright so I feel like Im lacking in the "opener/breaking the ice" category. If introduced to a girl I do perfectly fine...its just that I can't walk right up to a stranger and start talking...What are some lines/Idea's that you guys found most useful?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Rhino22

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Lol honestly I have only approached one girl really and it was at the bookstore. I said, "So you come here often?" Haha...and she ended up asking me for my name, put it in her phone and added me on facebook...then gave me her number without me asking for it. She was hot, too.
 

jdollarthegreat

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It's not what u say but how u say it and you gotta have swagger and confidence as well. But if a girl is looking at u say something like "I see you peaking but you ain't speaking" that'll get her attention. And if she looks at you and smiles or something just keep at her until u get action, say something like "a second look will get you hooked tho" thats ya opener and when she gives you some action just find out her name and say something like you'd like to get to know her better and exchange numbers or somethin, simple as that. You don't wanna give away too much of yaself u just wanna get her number and bounce, only time I believe you should have extended convos and do all this talkin is if you trying to pop off a one nighter or something ya dig.
 

Nefarious

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I like to say hi! with a big smile.

But my friend... he likes to take a lint ball out of his pants pocket and pretend to pull it off of a girls shirt... and be like "eww gross!!!"

This is usually hilarious and its a good neg.

good luck.
 

Remy

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I like to ask random proverbial questions

I.E. "Hey, if you could have all the money in the world, or a kiss from George W. Bush which would you choose?"

no matter WHAT their answer is, I always bust on them for it and go from there... hope this helps!
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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