Your best lines for rejecting/dumping women

[Jariel]

As you head towards DJ enlightenment I'm sure many of you are discovering a lot of girls getting attached or even falling for you. I've been playing the field a lot lately and enjoying dates and sex, but in most cases would just like to walk away and appreciate each experience for what it was.

How do you reject girls, discourage those who are too push or let them down gently? I'd really like to hear your reasons and excuses. Here are some of mine...



* I still have feelings for my ex. I thought I was ready to move on, but it's still too soon.

* I feel we are very different people and I can't see it working between us in the long term.

* I'm too busy to handle a relationship at the moment. I've got too much going on in my life.

* I have feelings for a close friend and need to get my head straight before I can move on.

* I cut/reduce contact until they take the hint.

* I get the feeling you want something different/you want kids and I don't/you want marriage and I don't etc.


Any others you can think of? These seem effective for rejecting girls who want relationships, but not so effective for girls who want to meet again casually.

 

[TheMale]

why youre not assuming your decision ??

* I still have feelings for my ex. I thought I was ready to move on, but it's still too soon.
* I'm too busy to handle a relationship at the moment. I've got too much going on in my life.
* I have feelings for a close friend and need to get my head straight before I can move on.

for my part i think its lame to say that
you dont want her tell her (the rest of your example is good but what ive put on the quote its lame)

 

[horaholic]

How about the truth? "Im not feeling it." True enough, and to the point.

 

[MusicMan450]

Yeah, no need to make up false excuses. Girls already play these games enough, we don't need men playing them.

 

[JohnnyStrabler]

the Book of Pook's generic "You are not woman enough for me" the beauty of this is it takes away the weight off your shoulders, she can interpret it anyway she can and hopefully rationalizes it in a way that she wouldnt get hurt, so you didnt hurt her, she can interpret it anyway she can and you can still be in control (instead of saying you still have feelings for your ex) and you got rid of her. Everyone wins.

If you tell her the truth (e.g. "I am not feeling it"), you think a girl who is genuinely attracted to you will stop pursuing? I dont want to sound like a d!ck or an airbag nor do I mean to brag but you obviously have not been stalked before....

.....as some of the guy's sigs says here "If a woman wants to f*ck you, she will find a way to f*ck you" or something like that, or the other one that says "if a woman wants to see you she will move mountains to see you...." or something I forgot the exact words(I wish I written those guy's names, because what they say is SO TRUE!!!)

 

[IamJosan]

I usually just stop talking to them. It's usually never anything serious. And when they ask where I've been, I say I've been busy. Why haven't you called ME?

 

[DJDamage]

How about the truth? "Im not feeling it." True enough, and to the point.

Some chicks can handle the truth, others can't and then go around telling everyone you know that you can't get it up or have a 2 inch d1ck.

I usually say that I am very busy due to work/looking for a new job which leaves me little time for them. If they really like you they will put up with it for sometime in which case you can enjoy sex without dating for a short time before they get fed up and get the hint.

 

[Jitterbug]

Sugar-coated version of the truth, with the line "it's not working for me" thrown in somewhere.

What you say matters less than what you need to do to eliminate or minimize any attempt at character assassination afterwards.

 

[vatoloco]

"It's not you. It's me."

 

[SweetTooth]

Wtf? Girls have hurt me so badly with "gentle" rejections which actually gave me hope, so just ****ing say "no you're a good friend, sorry."

Though honestly I leave the second they "have to talk" (haha if it's possible), or if their friends say she likes me I'm just like "really? Cool..."

 

[SweetTooth]

"You are not woman enough for me" the beauty of this is

is that it's probably the most hurtful thing you could possibly say to a girl. What sort of crap is that lmao.

 

[bigneil]

Tell them you've been seeing a girl from out of state where you travel for business.

 

[Huffman]

Come on man you don't need to do that girly talk we all hate so much.

What I've used before was "I just can't imagine myself in a relationship right now" or "I don't want any commitment, sorry for being an ass".

Anyway stupid excuses are the BIGGEST INSULT you can make... it means you value them so little that you think they're stupid enough to actually believe it. I'm usually quite angry and disappointed when a girl gives me a stupid excuse (for example when flaking).

I got honest rejections before and it was actually not bad. We were being adults about it and I gained lots of respect. More often than not, we remained friends, NOT heartbroken.

Thing is: if you reject someone, there's no easy way to do it, without facing your own guilt. Make it quick and painful - they'll be thanking you later. I know I did.

 

[JohnnyStrabler]

is that it's probably the most hurtful thing you could possibly say to a girl. What sort of crap is that lmao.

read the Book of Pook dude, its there page 258, and no its not hurtful, if she gets hurt she will get hurt with anything you say anyway with regards to rejecting her

 

[Jitterbug]

How do you honestly dump a girl because she's starting to get fat and you can tell she can never go back from there?

 

[Huffman]

If you've been with a girl for a while and she lets herself get fat, that is actually a personality problem I think (like no ambitions, selfcontrol). So yeah, you don't fit together if you value these things.
A mind can be much uglier than a body...

 

[Huffman]

If you've been with a girl for a while and she lets herself get fat, that is actually a personality problem I think (like no ambitions, selfcontrol). So yeah, you don't fit together if you value these things.
A mind can be much uglier than a body...

 

[DJDamage]

How do you honestly dump a girl because she's starting to get fat and you can tell she can never go back from there?

you outgrew me :crackup:

 

[Jitterbug]

Love "you outgrew me" - I can't wait to use that line one day lol

Yeah Huffman because it's so much better to reject someone for a crappy personality than fatness.

In my case, we only dated for two months but enough for me to see the signs that she was gonna get huge... Two years later, she now looks like she ate a medium-sized farm animal.

My rejection line was about us having too different hobbies (not actually a problem for me). I do many physical activities, some quite intense.

I don't think it'd fly for me to say "Girl, we can't date anymore cos you have no self control."

 

[Gangster Of Love]

is that it's probably the most hurtful thing you could possibly say to a girl. What sort of crap is that lmao.

Agree. That would be equivalent to her tell you "You aren not man enough for me", which a lot of guys take it as "Your c0ck is not big enough for me", which of course, we know most guys in here would not be able to get over that one for a while.