"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Your best flirting tactics?

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I’m trying to work on my flirting.

Last night I approached a HB9 at a bar but I failed at maintaining and raising her interest level. I could tell she was bored. Not much chasing on her side. I did get her number though but she’s from out of state visiting so nothing probably coming out of this.

ANYWAYS

I need to pick up some good tactics on maintaining high interest level. What are some of your best?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Boy- You look like you work out, got any muscles?
Girl- *Shows muscles, you squeeze them*
Boy- Nah you're a weakling aren't you!
Girl- *Laughs*


In 3 seconds you've complimented her, touched her, teased her and made her laugh

That's the tone I set
 
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