I have no problems laying women. In fact, I'm tired of it. It's getting old cause I don't dig most of them. I can sleep with women even though I live with family. Even though I'm broke. Never been a problem, never will be. But, I haven't had a "steady" girlfriend since the George W. Bush first administration. I would like to have a girlfriend. Especially now that it's getting cold and I want some presents for the holidays. I usually get so much puvsy that I have to get checked for STD's every two weeks.
But, now I am seeing this woman for the last four weeks. It's relatively new field for me. She is kinda growing on me. When I first met her, I thought she was retarded, but now, I think she's a cool cat. She seems to have her **** together, she's a strong girl. Works hard and has her guard up. Doesn't seem to be a sluvt but I can tell she wants anal. I dig this girl. But I have no clue on how to become "boyfriend" of her's.
My questions are (keep in mind that I want an LTR, not just sex). I want to hold up on sex for now (everytime I have sex with a woman early, it lasts a few months then it's done).
How often do you call a girl you have been intimate (but no sex) with? Once every two days? Once a week?( Went on about four or five dates now).
Where do you guys usually take someone you are interested in long term?
How often do you see each other?
Any other tips to creating attraction FOR THE LONG TERM????
Any ideas can help. I don't want to lose this girl so I'm putting all the other girls on the back burner for now. I don't want her to think I'm getting puvsy from elsewhere. The other day she calls me a player. She said that she thinks I may be dating like six or seven girls. I told her that six or seven girls WANT to date me, but doesn't mean they have my attention. I also told her that it's more like twenty to twenty three girls.
She seems old fashioned (I like that). Any advice?
But, now I am seeing this woman for the last four weeks. It's relatively new field for me. She is kinda growing on me. When I first met her, I thought she was retarded, but now, I think she's a cool cat. She seems to have her **** together, she's a strong girl. Works hard and has her guard up. Doesn't seem to be a sluvt but I can tell she wants anal. I dig this girl. But I have no clue on how to become "boyfriend" of her's.
My questions are (keep in mind that I want an LTR, not just sex). I want to hold up on sex for now (everytime I have sex with a woman early, it lasts a few months then it's done).
How often do you call a girl you have been intimate (but no sex) with? Once every two days? Once a week?( Went on about four or five dates now).
Where do you guys usually take someone you are interested in long term?
How often do you see each other?
Any other tips to creating attraction FOR THE LONG TERM????
Any ideas can help. I don't want to lose this girl so I'm putting all the other girls on the back burner for now. I don't want her to think I'm getting puvsy from elsewhere. The other day she calls me a player. She said that she thinks I may be dating like six or seven girls. I told her that six or seven girls WANT to date me, but doesn't mean they have my attention. I also told her that it's more like twenty to twenty three girls.
She seems old fashioned (I like that). Any advice?
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