"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I'm getting a lot more "matches" across all apps, I wonder (probably owned by the same "people" almost All of them just like NBC, ABC, Google, Youtube, Facebook) if they all changed the algos to make you 'match' more or it could really be these girls seeing my first pic and saying "oooh, he's hot" right swipe.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I'm getting a lot more "matches" across all apps, I wonder (probably owned by the same "people" almost All of them just like NBC, ABC, Google, Youtube, Facebook) if they all changed the algos to make you 'match' more or it could really be these girls seeing my first pic and saying "oooh, he's hot" right swipe.
Facebook will spy into your other apps. That's part of how they get the "people you might know" friend suggestions.
 

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“Oh ya? Well i am a man of many mysteries. It will be a fun ride for you”
 

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I have been on dates with well over 100 women in the last few years, only one, ever told me, that she would like to get to know me while messaging and she flaked. I saw this flake from a mile away. I would like to get to know you is code for “let’s text back and forth and never meet up in person. She was looking for a texting buddy that’s all. Move on.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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I have been on dates with well over 100 women in the last few years, only one, ever told me, that she would like to get to know me while messaging and she flaked. I saw this flake from a mile away. I would like to get to know you is code for “let’s text back and forth and never meet up in person. She was looking for a texting buddy that’s all. Move on.
I agree. I gave her my number, she hasn't done anything with it. I'll keep you updated should I be surprised. It was a rather weird com'on she's probably just coming off a relationship or something wanted a quick fix in me. Now, she's either back with her abusive beau or onto another dude.
 

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since thread creation 8 minutes have passed in which she matched with 50 average dudes and 9 chads and already setting date with them. too late Sorry OP
Is the answer to this just to avoid using OLD to meet women?
 
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