"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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madhatter

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hey fellas...have a question that hasn't been covered in prior posts. i'm a rather young looking guy. i'm 27, shave every other day, lift 5 times a week to look buff, am a resident in medicine, basically enough characteristics to make myself feel like a man. except my face makes me look REALLY young. my mom is mid 50s and has no grey hair and my sister is 29 and looks like she's in college. well, same with me. i look REALLY young and most people can't believe i'm out of high school. it doesn't help with the mature look needed to be a doctor. but i also have trouble picking up chicks because i don't look mature. anyone else have this problem or any advice?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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ScrewIt

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if thats a problem, grow some facial hair and leave it. leave a goatee or beard. also hairstyle and clothing is also an important factor to age appearance
 

Porky

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it's a problem because you're letting it be one.

better young than old. I get told all the time that I look years younger than I do, I just think it's funny.
 

Paintballguy

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Its better to look like your 20 than 40... I get the same thing as far as a youthful appearence. You just have to find the right hair cut for your face and maybe grow some facial hair.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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ScrewIt

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have you ever thought it might be a positive thing to appear younger than you are?

people often mistaken me for being in my early - mid 20's
normally i consider that a positive thing, but should i really?

i act like someone who's in their 20's, and i like to make friends with ppl in the 20's range.

so maybe its not all on looks? probably some part on personality also.
 

Good_ol_boy

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You may think it's a problem now, but...

When you're in your mid 50's(if you stay in shape and don't become a lard a$$) and the 20something chicks think you're in your 30's!! Enjoy!!!
 

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Originally posted by ScrewIt
if thats a problem, grow some facial hair and leave it. leave a goatee or beard. also hairstyle and clothing is also an important factor to age appearance
And confidence. You are older and wiser, use it to your advantage. I've looked young my whole life and it's a blessing. You can date just about anyone from 18 to your age or older (if you wanted to) and get away with it.

Don't grow old too fast!
 
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