"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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madhatter

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hey fellas...have a question that hasn't been covered in prior posts. i'm a rather young looking guy. i'm 27, shave every other day, lift 5 times a week to look buff, am a resident in medicine, basically enough characteristics to make myself feel like a man. except my face makes me look REALLY young. my mom is mid 50s and has no grey hair and my sister is 29 and looks like she's in college. well, same with me. i look REALLY young and most people can't believe i'm out of high school. it doesn't help with the mature look needed to be a doctor. but i also have trouble picking up chicks because i don't look mature. anyone else have this problem or any advice?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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ScrewIt

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if thats a problem, grow some facial hair and leave it. leave a goatee or beard. also hairstyle and clothing is also an important factor to age appearance
 

Porky

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it's a problem because you're letting it be one.

better young than old. I get told all the time that I look years younger than I do, I just think it's funny.
 

Paintballguy

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Its better to look like your 20 than 40... I get the same thing as far as a youthful appearence. You just have to find the right hair cut for your face and maybe grow some facial hair.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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ScrewIt

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have you ever thought it might be a positive thing to appear younger than you are?

people often mistaken me for being in my early - mid 20's
normally i consider that a positive thing, but should i really?

i act like someone who's in their 20's, and i like to make friends with ppl in the 20's range.

so maybe its not all on looks? probably some part on personality also.
 

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You may think it's a problem now, but...

When you're in your mid 50's(if you stay in shape and don't become a lard a$$) and the 20something chicks think you're in your 30's!! Enjoy!!!
 

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Originally posted by ScrewIt
if thats a problem, grow some facial hair and leave it. leave a goatee or beard. also hairstyle and clothing is also an important factor to age appearance
And confidence. You are older and wiser, use it to your advantage. I've looked young my whole life and it's a blessing. You can date just about anyone from 18 to your age or older (if you wanted to) and get away with it.

Don't grow old too fast!
 
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