"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Young guys who only prefer older chicks

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I have a couple of friends who are in the mid 20s and I find it strange they only deal with women that are in their 40s, 50s and sometimes even in their 60s... I mean, what do you find attractive about a broad that's 50 or 60? I understand some women in their 40s might look still attractive, but I mean above that... Like, what, don't these guys feel able to compete for the higher valued in the market girls in the 20s and 30s? Or is it just a matter of preference?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I have a couple of friends who are in the mid 20s and I find it strange they only deal with women that are in their 40s, 50s and sometimes even in their 60s... I mean, what do you find attractive about a broad that's 50 or 60? I understand some women in their 40s might look still attractive, but I mean above that... Like, what, don't these guys feel able to compete for the higher valued in the market girls in the 20s and 30s? Or is it just a matter of preference?
They probably like being taken care of, and an older chick is more apt to do that. So why fool with a 20-30 whose going to want to be in his pocket, having him jump over hurdles when a 40's and up will go in her pocket and chase him.
 

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They have personal mother issues.
Way to large of an age spread to be normal.
I was thinking this one, actually. This guy who lives with me is practically mirroring his parents relationship where his mother is the more dominating one in the relationship and is the main money earner of the house and takes care of most things. However, he treats his mother horribly, just like he treats most of these women..
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Mommy issues!
Yes, more than one parental gender can mess up a growing child and slant their behavior outside the norm, sometimes for life. In some cases both dad And mom do it at about the same time. I've been with a result of that act before. It's not good.
 
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Subtitled: some guys will f*ck ANYONE.


Mommy issues!


Sugar Mamas!
Bigneil needs him a sugar momma, he works so hard to love and support his young debuntantes, who loves and supports him other than him?
 

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I was 7 years older than the chick, a couple of LTRs ago. It was a nightmare. I know that it wouldn't be like that with every chick, but there was a combination of BPD, narcisistic behavior, and immaturity. I know another chick that is 8 years younger, probably has different issues, but has her sh*t together, mostly. It is all subjective.

With that said, I would date an older chick, but definitely not 20 years older. Maybe 5-7 years, tops. The much older ones definitely are not LTR material. More like, "I must be really hard up for sechs, and I hope that she doesn't have a heart attack," material. If you have to wonder that, is it even worth it? I don't think so.

Person A: "Who'd you bang last night?"
Person B: "Somebody's grandma."

No thanks.
 

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Reverse Perversion! :eek:
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I'm guilty of this... just love milfy chicks with big tits. I have issues...
 

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Some chick gave a theory too me years ago how men who prefer older women are closeted homosexuals. She brought up Ashton Kutcher and how him being a movie star could get any women his age or legally younger and he chose an older women (Demi Moore) and she had Bruce Willis kids. Kind of made sense, but I wasn't entirely sold on her theory
 

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Only if they're hot. If they're really ugly like your typical 40, 50, or 60 year old then definitely not. But I think it's also the taboo aspect that turns them on. Because it's ****ed up and nasty to some, it's hot. Just like anal.

tl;dr older women are anuses.
 

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I dont understand them at all, I already have problem to like girls my age let alone older.
Sure young girls behave stupidly sometime and are immature but older woman are much more likely to learn tricks and manipulation.

A young girl may play the jealousy game or create drama but an older woman is very likely she got in touch with feminists or older "empowered" women and the amount of sh1t they can create goes beyond any teen drama.

Dont let me start about aestetics, wrinkles, fat and untoned bodies are not for me.

A chubby 18 yrs old girls with the right curves may be cute but a chubby 30 yrs old woman is just fat.
 

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Women who maintain the radiance of Their youth have things that you will not find in a young woman. I think every age bracket has something unique to offer, not that I would ever date anyone more than 10 years older than me.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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