"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Young guys who only prefer older chicks

lizardking82

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I have a couple of friends who are in the mid 20s and I find it strange they only deal with women that are in their 40s, 50s and sometimes even in their 60s... I mean, what do you find attractive about a broad that's 50 or 60? I understand some women in their 40s might look still attractive, but I mean above that... Like, what, don't these guys feel able to compete for the higher valued in the market girls in the 20s and 30s? Or is it just a matter of preference?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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I have a couple of friends who are in the mid 20s and I find it strange they only deal with women that are in their 40s, 50s and sometimes even in their 60s... I mean, what do you find attractive about a broad that's 50 or 60? I understand some women in their 40s might look still attractive, but I mean above that... Like, what, don't these guys feel able to compete for the higher valued in the market girls in the 20s and 30s? Or is it just a matter of preference?
They probably like being taken care of, and an older chick is more apt to do that. So why fool with a 20-30 whose going to want to be in his pocket, having him jump over hurdles when a 40's and up will go in her pocket and chase him.
 

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They have personal mother issues.
Way to large of an age spread to be normal.
I was thinking this one, actually. This guy who lives with me is practically mirroring his parents relationship where his mother is the more dominating one in the relationship and is the main money earner of the house and takes care of most things. However, he treats his mother horribly, just like he treats most of these women..
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Billtx49

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Mommy issues!
Yes, more than one parental gender can mess up a growing child and slant their behavior outside the norm, sometimes for life. In some cases both dad And mom do it at about the same time. I've been with a result of that act before. It's not good.
 
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Subtitled: some guys will f*ck ANYONE.


Mommy issues!


Sugar Mamas!
Bigneil needs him a sugar momma, he works so hard to love and support his young debuntantes, who loves and supports him other than him?
 

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I was 7 years older than the chick, a couple of LTRs ago. It was a nightmare. I know that it wouldn't be like that with every chick, but there was a combination of BPD, narcisistic behavior, and immaturity. I know another chick that is 8 years younger, probably has different issues, but has her sh*t together, mostly. It is all subjective.

With that said, I would date an older chick, but definitely not 20 years older. Maybe 5-7 years, tops. The much older ones definitely are not LTR material. More like, "I must be really hard up for sechs, and I hope that she doesn't have a heart attack," material. If you have to wonder that, is it even worth it? I don't think so.

Person A: "Who'd you bang last night?"
Person B: "Somebody's grandma."

No thanks.
 

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Reverse Perversion! :eek:
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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SgtSplacker

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I'm guilty of this... just love milfy chicks with big tits. I have issues...
 

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Some chick gave a theory too me years ago how men who prefer older women are closeted homosexuals. She brought up Ashton Kutcher and how him being a movie star could get any women his age or legally younger and he chose an older women (Demi Moore) and she had Bruce Willis kids. Kind of made sense, but I wasn't entirely sold on her theory
 

ImTheDoubleGreatest!

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Only if they're hot. If they're really ugly like your typical 40, 50, or 60 year old then definitely not. But I think it's also the taboo aspect that turns them on. Because it's ****ed up and nasty to some, it's hot. Just like anal.

tl;dr older women are anuses.
 

Who Dares Win

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I dont understand them at all, I already have problem to like girls my age let alone older.
Sure young girls behave stupidly sometime and are immature but older woman are much more likely to learn tricks and manipulation.

A young girl may play the jealousy game or create drama but an older woman is very likely she got in touch with feminists or older "empowered" women and the amount of sh1t they can create goes beyond any teen drama.

Dont let me start about aestetics, wrinkles, fat and untoned bodies are not for me.

A chubby 18 yrs old girls with the right curves may be cute but a chubby 30 yrs old woman is just fat.
 

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Women who maintain the radiance of Their youth have things that you will not find in a young woman. I think every age bracket has something unique to offer, not that I would ever date anyone more than 10 years older than me.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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