wheelin&dealin
Master Don Juan
I used to think that older guys dating younger women were creepy. Now I think they're geniuses. I'm 25 and I'm taking out a 19 year-old. It's frick'n fantastic.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Young girl played me.
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Golden Arms
Master Don Juan
Nobody puts out faster than 21 yr old bartenders that let you stick it to them in the car once in a lifetime
ok we can argue about if a 31yr old should go for 18yr olds all day and night
but the fact remains an 18yr old is gonna be more immature, and be especially immature when dealing with a 31yr old, it just changes the whole dynamic
its not worth your time or effort, i'd say go for 21+, they have been to bars, are more keen about what they want, and are prolly better in bed anyways
i'm 23 btw, and i dont deal with 18 yr old girls anymore
but the fact remains an 18yr old is gonna be more immature, and be especially immature when dealing with a 31yr old, it just changes the whole dynamic
its not worth your time or effort, i'd say go for 21+, they have been to bars, are more keen about what they want, and are prolly better in bed anyways
i'm 23 btw, and i dont deal with 18 yr old girls anymore
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Originally posted by Golden Arms
Nobody puts out faster than 21 yr old bartenders that let you stick it to them in the car once in a lifetime
Stick 'em in a dental chair, Kramer style.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
wheelin&dealin
Master Don Juan
I take that back. She's an idiot...
I endorse Eric's penchant for fresh meat.
People who keep referring to laws as guides to dating partners ages can keep in mind that other industrialized countries (as advanced as yours) such as Britain and Australia have an age of consent of 16 years. We vote at 18 and we drink at 18. Only in the Prude S of A do you have George Bush's daughters getting chastised for drinking booze because they're not 21.
That having been said, it seems to me that the younger a woman is, the less blame you can attach to her for playing some games. If she was 30 and still playing them, well maybe its not right. Just as I would think it far worse to find a 30 year old throwing eggs at a passing car as opposed to a 13 year old.
People who keep referring to laws as guides to dating partners ages can keep in mind that other industrialized countries (as advanced as yours) such as Britain and Australia have an age of consent of 16 years. We vote at 18 and we drink at 18. Only in the Prude S of A do you have George Bush's daughters getting chastised for drinking booze because they're not 21.
That having been said, it seems to me that the younger a woman is, the less blame you can attach to her for playing some games. If she was 30 and still playing them, well maybe its not right. Just as I would think it far worse to find a 30 year old throwing eggs at a passing car as opposed to a 13 year old.
wunnaBsmooth
Don Juan
Here! Here!!
Well put ElChoclo !~!~
Seems like there are a lot of "sheltered" people around. Even on this board where I would expect to find a more "aware" audience.
Consider that it once was social suicide for a lady to NOT be married before she was 18........ can anybody say "Old Maid"?.....
Why do they offer Multi-million dollar modeling or acting contracts to those young actresses? Think about it!
I'm not even a DJ yet, but I'm not going to cut out a sizable chunk of the date-able chix before I even start! Besides... It's a renewable source.....lol
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Well put ElChoclo !~!~
Seems like there are a lot of "sheltered" people around. Even on this board where I would expect to find a more "aware" audience.
Consider that it once was social suicide for a lady to NOT be married before she was 18........ can anybody say "Old Maid"?.....
Why do they offer Multi-million dollar modeling or acting contracts to those young actresses? Think about it!
I'm not even a DJ yet, but I'm not going to cut out a sizable chunk of the date-able chix before I even start! Besides... It's a renewable source.....lol
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