wheelin&dealin
Master Don Juan
I used to think that older guys dating younger women were creepy. Now I think they're geniuses. I'm 25 and I'm taking out a 19 year-old. It's frick'n fantastic.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Young girl played me.
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Golden Arms
Master Don Juan
Nobody puts out faster than 21 yr old bartenders that let you stick it to them in the car once in a lifetime
ok we can argue about if a 31yr old should go for 18yr olds all day and night
but the fact remains an 18yr old is gonna be more immature, and be especially immature when dealing with a 31yr old, it just changes the whole dynamic
its not worth your time or effort, i'd say go for 21+, they have been to bars, are more keen about what they want, and are prolly better in bed anyways
i'm 23 btw, and i dont deal with 18 yr old girls anymore
but the fact remains an 18yr old is gonna be more immature, and be especially immature when dealing with a 31yr old, it just changes the whole dynamic
its not worth your time or effort, i'd say go for 21+, they have been to bars, are more keen about what they want, and are prolly better in bed anyways
i'm 23 btw, and i dont deal with 18 yr old girls anymore
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Originally posted by Golden Arms
Nobody puts out faster than 21 yr old bartenders that let you stick it to them in the car once in a lifetime
Stick 'em in a dental chair, Kramer style.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
wheelin&dealin
Master Don Juan
I take that back. She's an idiot...
I endorse Eric's penchant for fresh meat.
People who keep referring to laws as guides to dating partners ages can keep in mind that other industrialized countries (as advanced as yours) such as Britain and Australia have an age of consent of 16 years. We vote at 18 and we drink at 18. Only in the Prude S of A do you have George Bush's daughters getting chastised for drinking booze because they're not 21.
That having been said, it seems to me that the younger a woman is, the less blame you can attach to her for playing some games. If she was 30 and still playing them, well maybe its not right. Just as I would think it far worse to find a 30 year old throwing eggs at a passing car as opposed to a 13 year old.
People who keep referring to laws as guides to dating partners ages can keep in mind that other industrialized countries (as advanced as yours) such as Britain and Australia have an age of consent of 16 years. We vote at 18 and we drink at 18. Only in the Prude S of A do you have George Bush's daughters getting chastised for drinking booze because they're not 21.
That having been said, it seems to me that the younger a woman is, the less blame you can attach to her for playing some games. If she was 30 and still playing them, well maybe its not right. Just as I would think it far worse to find a 30 year old throwing eggs at a passing car as opposed to a 13 year old.
wunnaBsmooth
Don Juan
Here! Here!!
Well put ElChoclo !~!~
Seems like there are a lot of "sheltered" people around. Even on this board where I would expect to find a more "aware" audience.
Consider that it once was social suicide for a lady to NOT be married before she was 18........ can anybody say "Old Maid"?.....
Why do they offer Multi-million dollar modeling or acting contracts to those young actresses? Think about it!
I'm not even a DJ yet, but I'm not going to cut out a sizable chunk of the date-able chix before I even start! Besides... It's a renewable source.....lol
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Well put ElChoclo !~!~
Seems like there are a lot of "sheltered" people around. Even on this board where I would expect to find a more "aware" audience.
Consider that it once was social suicide for a lady to NOT be married before she was 18........ can anybody say "Old Maid"?.....
Why do they offer Multi-million dollar modeling or acting contracts to those young actresses? Think about it!
I'm not even a DJ yet, but I'm not going to cut out a sizable chunk of the date-able chix before I even start! Besides... It's a renewable source.....lol
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