"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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young girl got me confused..

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we have this thing going on for a week now via internet she is really nice and hot as hell, tho she recently broke up with her ex.. she tells me she is over him and stuff and thinks he's a jerk, thing is she still sends him messages and **** like nothing has happened... she really wants to see me though and talks in a way im convinced she really is into me.

the problem is I dont know wether to tell her I'll talk and date to her when she is completely over her ex, or should I play the game allong and date her and ****.. there just is this weird feeling in my stomach that this girl could be messing with me or something.

to be honest I'm quite suspicious with girls since most of em are snakes anyway :p I really really like her though and dont want to lose a nice lady because of my own dumb fault.

hope you guys can help me in the right direction, I'd appreciate it <:
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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You my brother, sound like you've been used as her emotional tampon. Judge her by her actions, not her words.

Oh, directions wise.. Ask her out and gauge her response. If she is in any way flaky or displays low IL, then reach for the button and <NEXT>.
 
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thewickedm said:
You my brother, sound like you've been used as her emotional tampon. Judge her by her actions, not her words.

Oh, directions wise.. Ask her out and gauge her response. If she is in any way flaky or displays low IL, then reach for the button and <NEXT>.
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I totally agree with this. And trust me if theyve only been broken up for a week and she still sends him messages there is no way in hell shes over him.
 
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haha thewickedm yes that was the word I was looking for, emotional tampon rofl, anyway Im going out on a date with her next week.. **** her ex.. when she's with me she's like.. ex? what ex??

I'll make a report when I'm done ;)
 
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Looking forward to it bro ;) Might be away from the board for awhile. Been screwing my life up in terms of studies, and now the exams are eating my behind away lol!
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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That weird feeling in your stomach is your gut... I learned that you must always trust it or you are bound to be disappointed. The thing is you are most likely her rebound since she just broke up and needs something to rebuild her ego. So either way whatever comes out of it won't really last, the most you can probably do is **** her and then leave
 
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