"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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young girl got me confused..

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we have this thing going on for a week now via internet she is really nice and hot as hell, tho she recently broke up with her ex.. she tells me she is over him and stuff and thinks he's a jerk, thing is she still sends him messages and **** like nothing has happened... she really wants to see me though and talks in a way im convinced she really is into me.

the problem is I dont know wether to tell her I'll talk and date to her when she is completely over her ex, or should I play the game allong and date her and ****.. there just is this weird feeling in my stomach that this girl could be messing with me or something.

to be honest I'm quite suspicious with girls since most of em are snakes anyway :p I really really like her though and dont want to lose a nice lady because of my own dumb fault.

hope you guys can help me in the right direction, I'd appreciate it <:
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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You my brother, sound like you've been used as her emotional tampon. Judge her by her actions, not her words.

Oh, directions wise.. Ask her out and gauge her response. If she is in any way flaky or displays low IL, then reach for the button and <NEXT>.
 
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thewickedm said:
You my brother, sound like you've been used as her emotional tampon. Judge her by her actions, not her words.

Oh, directions wise.. Ask her out and gauge her response. If she is in any way flaky or displays low IL, then reach for the button and <NEXT>.
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I totally agree with this. And trust me if theyve only been broken up for a week and she still sends him messages there is no way in hell shes over him.
 
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haha thewickedm yes that was the word I was looking for, emotional tampon rofl, anyway Im going out on a date with her next week.. **** her ex.. when she's with me she's like.. ex? what ex??

I'll make a report when I'm done ;)
 
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Looking forward to it bro ;) Might be away from the board for awhile. Been screwing my life up in terms of studies, and now the exams are eating my behind away lol!
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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That weird feeling in your stomach is your gut... I learned that you must always trust it or you are bound to be disappointed. The thing is you are most likely her rebound since she just broke up and needs something to rebuild her ego. So either way whatever comes out of it won't really last, the most you can probably do is **** her and then leave
 
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