"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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young gals? wtf...

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I've noticed lately that gals my age seem skittish...prob. in or have been in bad relationships.

But lately when I'm out with a friend, gals that seem in the 23-32 (guessing) age range seem attracted to me. Not that I'm disappointed, but how does one rationalize this?

I wasn't planning on playing that game, but I'm really tempted now!
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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glass half full said:
I've noticed lately that gals my age seem skittish...prob. in or have been in bad relationships.

But lately when I'm out with a friend, gals that seem in the 23-32 (guessing) age range seem attracted to me. Not that I'm disappointed, but how does one rationalize this?

I wasn't planning on playing that game, but I'm really tempted now!
Keep in mind the different age groups have different games that tend to be run.

I'd stay away from 25 and younger unless you are going for one night stands. I wouldn't spend a lot of time on them.

At your age 30 and up is fair game. It depends on what you are looking for.

Are you looking for a stable and loving relationship partner?
Are you looking for a endless carousel of different sexual partners?
 
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samspade said:
Plenty of younger women find older men attractive. I'm seeing a 22 year old. Why not enjoy 'em?
You can enjoy them, but you will have lots of "growing pains" with them. That's all I was saying. If you try to wife her up or make her your woman, you will go thru all the things that she is going to go thru as she fully grows up. You probably will be cheated on, and a bunch of hair brained episodes you will deal with. They change drastically.

But if you can keep it "fun", sure enjoy them.:rock:
 

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That's what I was getting at, gaming them. Wasn't my plan originally, but...why not! I feel like I deserve some "one-night or five" company!
 
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