"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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young gals? wtf...

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I've noticed lately that gals my age seem skittish...prob. in or have been in bad relationships.

But lately when I'm out with a friend, gals that seem in the 23-32 (guessing) age range seem attracted to me. Not that I'm disappointed, but how does one rationalize this?

I wasn't planning on playing that game, but I'm really tempted now!
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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glass half full said:
I've noticed lately that gals my age seem skittish...prob. in or have been in bad relationships.

But lately when I'm out with a friend, gals that seem in the 23-32 (guessing) age range seem attracted to me. Not that I'm disappointed, but how does one rationalize this?

I wasn't planning on playing that game, but I'm really tempted now!
Keep in mind the different age groups have different games that tend to be run.

I'd stay away from 25 and younger unless you are going for one night stands. I wouldn't spend a lot of time on them.

At your age 30 and up is fair game. It depends on what you are looking for.

Are you looking for a stable and loving relationship partner?
Are you looking for a endless carousel of different sexual partners?
 
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samspade said:
Plenty of younger women find older men attractive. I'm seeing a 22 year old. Why not enjoy 'em?
You can enjoy them, but you will have lots of "growing pains" with them. That's all I was saying. If you try to wife her up or make her your woman, you will go thru all the things that she is going to go thru as she fully grows up. You probably will be cheated on, and a bunch of hair brained episodes you will deal with. They change drastically.

But if you can keep it "fun", sure enjoy them.:rock:
 

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That's what I was getting at, gaming them. Wasn't my plan originally, but...why not! I feel like I deserve some "one-night or five" company!
 
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