You'll find me in da club...

[roman]

what's up fellas?? this is my first post here but i've been reading up on the bible for a little while now just trying to absorb as much theory as i can while putting it into practice. i'm seriously humbled by the wisdom i'm seeing here.

here's the deal. i just moved into the san francisco bay area this summer, which has opened up a whole new world to me since i go to college in iowa and don't normally have access to the resources a metropolitan area like s.f. provides.

so i've been checking out clubs in the city, trying to meet girls, but here's the problem--i can't friggin dance for the life of me. i'm about a 9 in the looks department, good personality, sense of humor, etc., maybe a little shy. but i can't dance for sh!t... how do i approach a girl in the club without looking like one of those fools who just stands around lookinlike a jackass or just sneaks in from behind and starts grinding cuz he doesnt know any other moves?

also, some tips on how to get a girl to go home with you when you're at the club would be helpful. my cousin is skilled when it comes to the 'tang, and he's been taking me out and showing me some tricks--his technique is basically to hang out at the bar area, wait for a hot girl to come around and offer her a drink, make some sh!t up to impress the girl, buy her more drinks till she's bombed enough, and take her home in a cab. seems to work for him like a charm. does anyone have anything else that works, maybe another sure-fire way to get those 10s from the club and into the sack? thanks guys, i appreciate it

-roman

 

[gav]

you're a 9? shouldn't be too much trouble if you are, or even if you think like that.

dancewise- i've found no useful tips on this forum about it ever! basically, most guys are shyt at it. i've improved simply by watching those who look like they know what they're doing. try dancing in the mirror while listening to music. yes, it seems very stupid, but it'll help if you keep trying new things. one of the mistakes i made was to put too much energy into my legs. try moving your hips to the music- that way it'll look like you fit in with everyone else, which is what you're after right?

there are articles on club tactics in the bible already. i'd also strongly recommend reading finger's weapons of mass seduction

 

[roman]

Originally posted by gav
you're a 9? shouldn't be too much trouble if you are, or even if you think like that.

you'd think with a 9 in looks i'd be able to land almost any chick without a problem. it's true that girls are physically attracted to me, but i'm a reserved guy; i don't talk a lot, have an even temper, and am careful with my words and conservative with my gestures), which often works to my advantage in meeting girls at college but isnt very advantageous on the dance floor of a club--does that make sense?. see i used to be very shy and kinda awkward socially due to social anxiety, but now i've forced myself to become outgoing and am just now starting to get into the social scene after being a recluse in high school (i've found drinking helps me relax and be more outgoing). my first year of college (this past year) i landed a perfect 10 (she was from europe) but couldnt hook her longer than a couple weeks. i know now that the reason i failed with her was that i wasnt a challenge and was being too nice. so now i'm refining my dj skills, abandoning my old "nice guy" image and starting a new life for myself.

so mastering the club scene is my next goal, which involves learning how to dance. i'll definitely check out the dj bible for more club tactics, and i appreciate your advice.

thanks,
roman

 

[Mercenary]

Originally posted by roman
my cousin is skilled when it comes to the 'tang, and he's been taking me out and showing me some tricks--his technique is basically to hang out at the bar area, wait for a hot girl to come around and offer her a drink, make some sh!t up to impress the girl, buy her more drinks till she's bombed enough, and take her home in a cab. seems to work for him like a charm. does anyone have anything else that works

That is straight up AFC, not to mention shady. You could end up behind bars if you did that to the wrong woman.

 

[roman]

Re: Re: You'll find me in da club...

Originally posted by Mercenary
That is straight up AFC, not to mention shady. You could end up behind bars if you did that to the wrong woman.

maybe you misunderstood... the girls are consenting. i just mean, they are drunk enough to be eager to go home. i'm not going to argue with you though, it is shady and definitely not my approach to women. works for him though.

 

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