"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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"youd be really cute if you gave me a ride to xxx"

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xomel

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How do I respond to something like this? This particular girl asked me for a ride to a city thats almost 2 hours away.

I find myself in situations where girls ask me for rides a lot and quite frankly i actually enjoy driving. (my car, cuz its fun to drive) So sometimes I go along but other times I'm affraid I might come off as a pushover or someone who can be taken advantage of. But of course a 2 hour drive is rediculous.

What do you guys do when girls ask you for a ride?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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edmond

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Stop....

being a fool, these sluts are just taking advantage of your good nature. Start asking THEM, will I get a BJ in exchange?
 
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highschoolguy

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Only if you give me head while I drive.

Girls say that to take advantage of you and no real man would drive a girl ,he aint fukin, 2 hours away...nope no way.
 
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Gubby

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No more needs to be said... think, how would I act if I knew all girls wanted me? There. Done.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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