"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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"youd be really cute if you gave me a ride to xxx"

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xomel

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How do I respond to something like this? This particular girl asked me for a ride to a city thats almost 2 hours away.

I find myself in situations where girls ask me for rides a lot and quite frankly i actually enjoy driving. (my car, cuz its fun to drive) So sometimes I go along but other times I'm affraid I might come off as a pushover or someone who can be taken advantage of. But of course a 2 hour drive is rediculous.

What do you guys do when girls ask you for a ride?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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edmond

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Stop....

being a fool, these sluts are just taking advantage of your good nature. Start asking THEM, will I get a BJ in exchange?
 
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highschoolguy

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Only if you give me head while I drive.

Girls say that to take advantage of you and no real man would drive a girl ,he aint fukin, 2 hours away...nope no way.
 
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Gubby

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No more needs to be said... think, how would I act if I knew all girls wanted me? There. Done.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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