"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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"youd be really cute if you gave me a ride to xxx"

xomel

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How do I respond to something like this? This particular girl asked me for a ride to a city thats almost 2 hours away.

I find myself in situations where girls ask me for rides a lot and quite frankly i actually enjoy driving. (my car, cuz its fun to drive) So sometimes I go along but other times I'm affraid I might come off as a pushover or someone who can be taken advantage of. But of course a 2 hour drive is rediculous.

What do you guys do when girls ask you for a ride?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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edmond

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Stop....

being a fool, these sluts are just taking advantage of your good nature. Start asking THEM, will I get a BJ in exchange?
 

highschoolguy

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Only if you give me head while I drive.

Girls say that to take advantage of you and no real man would drive a girl ,he aint fukin, 2 hours away...nope no way.
 

Gubby

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No more needs to be said... think, how would I act if I knew all girls wanted me? There. Done.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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