"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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You will never be successful with women

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until you learn to live without them.


You will never be able to have women jocking for your attention, until learn to urge that craving for attention by developing things that peak your interest in life and give you a sense of well being.

You will never be able to see a woman for who she truely is, until you aren't depenent on her approval

A woman may thing you are a great guy, but she will not respect you unless she knows that she is not the center of your life.

And finally, you will never move foward in the ever ending progression of the dating game and understanding women, until you look into the mirror and start taking responsbility for your own actions in life.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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This is a troll post. My post is a troll post, sorry. I'm just opening this up to say that what your saying has been said a thousand different ways, and this is not even near the top of the list. Show me up, give me something special.

Why even worry about women? Hasn't that been said too? Don't worry about women, unless you really want one, don't lie to yourself that you don't want them. Do tell yourself that everything is going to be fine though, if it is going to be fine. I really don't know where I am going...

tell me again what you said, and make it mean something. Your not going to get away with being so nice to me. Your not going to sleep with me if I was a girl for this nicey nicey thread you just made under tips.
 

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everyone is listening, but no one is hearing me.. just take a look over at the general dicussion fourm.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Basically, this post stress the key of not being needy.
 

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I tend to think things through in their extreme to really understand them.

In this case, imagine having your face really ****ed up (think Vanilla Sky) and having to live like that for the rest of your life. You would literally have to be content in living your life without women.
 

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Originally posted by backbreaker
everyone is listening, but no one is hearing me.. just take a look over at the general dicussion fourm.
backbreaker, do you know why I am angry right now? I am not a sex fiend, I haven't masturbated once this year, I have had sex, but only when I blacked out, so I can't remember, I've done kino, and I've talked about sex openly with guys and joked about it with girls. No competition in getting sex anymore, it's almost too boring for me, I am getting angry, because nobody believes that I am right about OTHER things in my life. Probably because I haven't proved them wrong, like I do whenever they ask about the ladies.

So I am on the opposite end of the spectrum, I am so good with the ladies, that I think I NEED them to be successful, but I don't WANT them right now.

So telling me I am not successful with women, was meant to arouse me right? To get me angry, to make me look and think, than ask a question? Well here it goes!

What do I do, to have the desire to socialize? The other thread got sidetracked by two obstinant ****ers talking about morals in business, so maybe you can help me out.
 

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that's an immature way to look at it.

maybe this post isnt' for you.. it isn't. It's for the guys who get down after a girl rejects them, etc. Who put too much stock in women.

That's let me reading every AFC post on LJBFs and then getting mad because it doesn't pertain to me.. I just skip it
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Originally posted by backbreaker
that's an immature way to look at it.

maybe this post isnt' for you.. it isn't. It's for the guys who get down after a girl rejects them, etc. Who put too much stock in women.

That's let me reading every AFC post on LJBFs and then getting mad because it doesn't pertain to me.. I just skip it
This is my day of reckoning:p

Thanks, what you said is true, I just wasn't going to believe it until somebody meant it. Sorry for getting angry, I don't know a better way yet, all the funny people in my life turn out to be the worst of them all. I have no comedic idols that I can reach out and touch on a regular basis, I wish I was who I am in public on this site.
 
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