Most of you will not be successful with women. It is just like anything else, you eithier have it or you dont.. If you dont get theh ang of this stuff and see results in about 2 weeks after you start you can just quit because it is never going to happen. It will save you time to realize this.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
You will know in the first 2 weeks if you can do it or not.
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
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Cool Story Brah.
Let's Get Real
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Why are you guys being mean to poor ol' jimd33??? He's an AFC that found out after 2 weeks that he was going to be jacking off his entire life or marrying a fat ugly lady...he's also a quitter after 2 weeks?? Imagine what his life is like outside of dealing with women.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
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You're a phaggot dude. It takes 30 days to develop a new habit, and by then.
A daily cold approach here and there during the day (work/college) or street would have become habitual and ingrained after 30 days, making any man instantly rehabilitated, regardless of success.
14 days is not enough to conclude a overall analysis of success you moron.
A daily cold approach here and there during the day (work/college) or street would have become habitual and ingrained after 30 days, making any man instantly rehabilitated, regardless of success.
14 days is not enough to conclude a overall analysis of success you moron.
Likewise. This is terrible advice.Alle_Gory said:
There's enough examples out there to prove this wrong.
Getting women IS A SKILL just like anything.
Some people have better natural ability than others, just like anything, but anyone can improve if they go in with the right mindset and practice until they improve.
The problem is that some new people might see this thread from this loser and think it's true, and use it an excuse to give up on self improvement.
Whereas winners work at if they have to, don't make excuses for themselves and focus on continuous improvement.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Packers2010
Master Don Juan
i know i don't have it. but i'm going to prove you wrong! i am going to do it!
Your take on it is so wrong! I didn't have it, 2 months into learning and practicing I am beginning to "have" it, it's a slow learning process. I am more confident, can talk to women with ease, I've gotten numbers and lining up dates.Like all skills and trades, most of them you need a lot more than 2 weeks to get good. I didn't just give myself 2 weeks, I gave myself a year to judge my development.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Korrupt
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This again? No-one is born with the ability to successfully pickup girls. Like one of the above posters stated, it's a learned skill. Being shy or being outgoing is something learned as you grow up. There is no shy or outgoing gene in your biological make-up and you can change.
rushing dude 123
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Ah so you couldn't do it after two weeks, so you thought that making an excuse like this would make you feel better. So you can wake up in the morning and look in the mirror and say "it's not your fault it's the world".
No wonder u couldn't pick it up in 2 weeks with such a crappy mind set like that and what type of person trys to drag people down with him?
Take responsiblity for your life, you are the only one who can control ur destiny. Till u learn that you will never be succesful with women.
No wonder u couldn't pick it up in 2 weeks with such a crappy mind set like that and what type of person trys to drag people down with him?
Take responsiblity for your life, you are the only one who can control ur destiny. Till u learn that you will never be succesful with women.
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Judge nismo has been presented a case of pessimism. I will shut this sh*t out right now.jimd33 said:
The pyramids weren't built in a day. You gotta learn, apply, have the right stuff, and do whatever you can to get a chick. Quit whining cuz this sh*t ain't gonna spoonfed to you. Wake the f**k up and smell, STOP CRYING AND ERASE THAT F**KIN' NEGATIVE ATTITUDE RIGHT NOW! You got problems huh? Well fix that sh*t! Get off your f**kin' ass and handle your business. That's up to you. I can't solve that sh*t for you. This site is full of free advice and great advice. It's your job to find it motherf**ker. I'll even help you out with some: Read my sig. Find the rest.
Whether you wanna get a girl, a harem of girls, get rich, or just go to bed ever night and jack off to porn or coulda-woulda-shoulda been's is your choice. and yours alone. Remember that sh*t. I was pathetic with women and I learned some powerful sh*t here to turn my love life around. It helped me get girls I otherwise wouldn't get or otherwise have no f**kin' clue of getting. At least I'll know what the hell went wrong. I apply sh*t. Stop being afraid bro. If you're ugly, change your diet and work out. I'm dieting right now. That's a different subject, but if you know you got a long road ahead of you, you better walk it, drive it or whatever. The sooner, the better, and the fact that the PUA community is so widely known (and getting more known by the minute) doesn't help.
So what the f**k are you gonna do? Whine and masturbate? Or get control of your love life. That's for you to decide.
Case dismissed. Leave my courtroom.
Kenny Powers
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Don't feed the trolls!!!!!!!!!!!!
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.