Most of you will not be successful with women. It is just like anything else, you eithier have it or you dont.. If you dont get theh ang of this stuff and see results in about 2 weeks after you start you can just quit because it is never going to happen. It will save you time to realize this.
Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
You will know in the first 2 weeks if you can do it or not.
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
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Cool Story Brah.
Let's Get Real
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Why are you guys being mean to poor ol' jimd33??? He's an AFC that found out after 2 weeks that he was going to be jacking off his entire life or marrying a fat ugly lady...he's also a quitter after 2 weeks?? Imagine what his life is like outside of dealing with women.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
The College Jock
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You're a phaggot dude. It takes 30 days to develop a new habit, and by then.
A daily cold approach here and there during the day (work/college) or street would have become habitual and ingrained after 30 days, making any man instantly rehabilitated, regardless of success.
14 days is not enough to conclude a overall analysis of success you moron.
A daily cold approach here and there during the day (work/college) or street would have become habitual and ingrained after 30 days, making any man instantly rehabilitated, regardless of success.
14 days is not enough to conclude a overall analysis of success you moron.
Likewise. This is terrible advice.Alle_Gory said:
There's enough examples out there to prove this wrong.
Getting women IS A SKILL just like anything.
Some people have better natural ability than others, just like anything, but anyone can improve if they go in with the right mindset and practice until they improve.
The problem is that some new people might see this thread from this loser and think it's true, and use it an excuse to give up on self improvement.
Whereas winners work at if they have to, don't make excuses for themselves and focus on continuous improvement.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Packers2010
Master Don Juan
i know i don't have it. but i'm going to prove you wrong! i am going to do it!
Your take on it is so wrong! I didn't have it, 2 months into learning and practicing I am beginning to "have" it, it's a slow learning process. I am more confident, can talk to women with ease, I've gotten numbers and lining up dates.Like all skills and trades, most of them you need a lot more than 2 weeks to get good. I didn't just give myself 2 weeks, I gave myself a year to judge my development.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Korrupt
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This again? No-one is born with the ability to successfully pickup girls. Like one of the above posters stated, it's a learned skill. Being shy or being outgoing is something learned as you grow up. There is no shy or outgoing gene in your biological make-up and you can change.
rushing dude 123
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Ah so you couldn't do it after two weeks, so you thought that making an excuse like this would make you feel better. So you can wake up in the morning and look in the mirror and say "it's not your fault it's the world".
No wonder u couldn't pick it up in 2 weeks with such a crappy mind set like that and what type of person trys to drag people down with him?
Take responsiblity for your life, you are the only one who can control ur destiny. Till u learn that you will never be succesful with women.
No wonder u couldn't pick it up in 2 weeks with such a crappy mind set like that and what type of person trys to drag people down with him?
Take responsiblity for your life, you are the only one who can control ur destiny. Till u learn that you will never be succesful with women.
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Judge nismo has been presented a case of pessimism. I will shut this sh*t out right now.jimd33 said:
The pyramids weren't built in a day. You gotta learn, apply, have the right stuff, and do whatever you can to get a chick. Quit whining cuz this sh*t ain't gonna spoonfed to you. Wake the f**k up and smell, STOP CRYING AND ERASE THAT F**KIN' NEGATIVE ATTITUDE RIGHT NOW! You got problems huh? Well fix that sh*t! Get off your f**kin' ass and handle your business. That's up to you. I can't solve that sh*t for you. This site is full of free advice and great advice. It's your job to find it motherf**ker. I'll even help you out with some: Read my sig. Find the rest.
Whether you wanna get a girl, a harem of girls, get rich, or just go to bed ever night and jack off to porn or coulda-woulda-shoulda been's is your choice. and yours alone. Remember that sh*t. I was pathetic with women and I learned some powerful sh*t here to turn my love life around. It helped me get girls I otherwise wouldn't get or otherwise have no f**kin' clue of getting. At least I'll know what the hell went wrong. I apply sh*t. Stop being afraid bro. If you're ugly, change your diet and work out. I'm dieting right now. That's a different subject, but if you know you got a long road ahead of you, you better walk it, drive it or whatever. The sooner, the better, and the fact that the PUA community is so widely known (and getting more known by the minute) doesn't help.
So what the f**k are you gonna do? Whine and masturbate? Or get control of your love life. That's for you to decide.
Case dismissed. Leave my courtroom.
Kenny Powers
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Don't feed the trolls!!!!!!!!!!!!
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.