MR_PERFECT
Senior Don Juan
Are you guys saying women don't need sex, or are their opportunities so abundant that they can just move on to the next guy? From my experience, it's when I show a want for sex that I'm suddenly paying in some way.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
MR_PERFECT said:Are you guys saying women don't need sex, or are their opportunities so abundant that they can just move on to the next guy? From my experience, it's when I show a want for sex that I'm suddenly paying in some way.
I'm very surprised at this statement. It's inacurate at best.As a Man you will ALWAYS pay for sex in some way. You may finance it, you may buy it retail or wholesale, you might rent it and you might just beat off to the advertising, but rest assured, you WILL pay.
I think the point is you didn't just walk into a bar pick out which girl you wanted and took her right out the door no problems no delays. Yes, I've met the drunken girl and sometimes she was desirable that wanted to hook up with little or no effort on my part. But it never happened as I just described. It was after a few hours at the bar and I wasn't exactly just minding my own business and she came onto me. I had to approach several girls through the night. Let's be honest the real reason I spent all the time, getting ready, driving to the bar and the couple hours spent there and money for drinks was primarily to get laid. We can debate whether it was necessary to buy drinks for myself. Then I had to spend time and effort dealing with obstacles. then I had to provide transportation to her place. No, I didn't spend a lot of time and money directly on the girl, but the point is I payed time, money and effort indirectly on what was an easy lay. contrast this with a woman. She could be dropped off at a bar with no money and without any effort on her part could be out the door to have sex with pretty much any guy of her choosing.NewMan said:I'm very surprised at this statement. It's inacurate at best.
Has no one ever had a one night stand?
Have you never meet a girl that just wanted to fvck?
Granted, it's happened to me only a handful of times - but it does exist. The gold diggers out there, will be with you in the HOPE that they will receive such benefit's.
I don't know there's a lot of commodities people basically need and to get them they have to pay. Women may need sex but the thing is it's freely and readily available to them.Unlike commodities, the difference here, is that some women NEED sex. If you come accross one of these situations (lucky enough) you've hit a rare seam of gold. It'll dry up fast, but it's there.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
I think the point is you didn't just walk into a bar pick out which girl you wanted and took her right out the door no problems no delays. Yes, I've met the drunken girl and sometimes she was desirable that wanted to hook up with little or no effort on my part. But it never happened as I just described. It was after a few hours at the bar and I wasn't exactly just minding my own business and she came onto me. I had to approach several girls through the night. Let's be honest the real reason I spent all the time, getting ready, driving to the bar and the couple hours spent there and money for drinks was primarily to get laid. We can debate whether it was necessary to buy drinks for myself. Then I had to spend time and effort dealing with obstacles. then I had to provide transportation to her place. No, I didn't spend a lot of time and money directly on the girl, but the point is I payed time, money and effort indirectly on what was an easy lay. contrast this with a woman. She could be dropped off at a bar with no money and without any effort on her part could be out the door to have sex with pretty much any guy of her choosing.
It's funny how the reason sex is so much harder for us to aquire(from hot women particularly speaking), is because they hold so many more requirements that we have to meet, whereas, with us, all she has to do is be SEXY and HOT. In order to aquire sex from a hottie, the guy must have solid game..or with some chix, such as those within the underground scenes, have status(be a DJ, be in a band, be a promoter, etc.). It's amazing how much differently attraction works for women, than it does for men. This is why it's a struggle for guys to get laid. Had attraction for women worked the same way it does for us, we'd be getting laid literally around the clock; whenever and wherever we wanted to, and more importantly, with WHOMEVER we wanted. But unfortunately we live in an imperfect world and that's not the way things work.ketostix said:On the other hand, more sex is available to most women than they'd ever want due just to the basic fact they have a vagina.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Rollo Tomassi said:As a Man you will ALWAYS pay for sex in some way. You may finance it, you may buy it retail or wholesale, you might rent it and you might just beat off to the advertising, but rest assured, you WILL pay.
Which is precisely why my prostitution career isn't taking off.squirrels said:"Free" sex is really just paying for sex with sex. The purest form of sex.
The idea that you have to pay something OTHER than sex for sex is where supplicating behavior comes from. "Oh, girls aren't interested in sex, so I have to buy her jewelry, do nice things for her, get her flowers, kiss her ass, etc so I can get sex".
It all stems from the false understanding that women don't love the cawk. Once you understand that women do, indeed, love the cawk, then the need to "pay" something other than your sex for her sex goes away.
They might love to get fukked, but the realization of sex as a commodity most often results in an indirect exchange of money for sex.squirrels said:It all stems from the false understanding that women don't love the cawk. Once you understand that women do, indeed, love the cawk, then the need to "pay" something other than your sex for her sex goes away.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
That's why you should always marry a horny gal, a horny gal. She should Look like she masturbates in her spare time.Tazman said:^^^ That's interesting. My boss was talking about how he got laid one time because he had just closed a deal on a new house and his wife was feeling "happy" about it all. Most other times he mentions it, she's like pushing him away, lol.
That's actually pretty funny, but at the same time it's really not. It sux to be in a situation like that. But if he's gonna stay in a situation like that, then he gets what he deserves. That's why, the second the b*tch stops putting out, I'm out the f*ckin' door. The least a woman can do if she isn't horny or in the mood, is lay there as a dead f*ck and let the husband pound away. It's only the right thing to do as a partner. I know if I wasn't in the mood to fool around with my girlfriend or wife, I'd still do it, just to please her. Of course I don't mean "please" her in an AFC way. It so happens that I'm not a fan of having sex with the vagina(I prefer all the other forms of sex with a woman), but I'll do it anyway, just to satisfy her sexually.Tazman said:^^^ That's interesting. My boss was talking about how he got laid one time because he had just closed a deal on a new house and his wife was feeling "happy" about it all. Most other times he mentions it, she's like pushing him away, lol.
They're all horny, she just most likely isn't horny for him. Yeah, there's some exceptions where the wife really isn't a horny woman, but most of the time they're horny. She's probably a gold-digger who doesn't mind being with a guy she's not attracted to(as long as she's financially sound) and is "getting it" from someone else. See guys, this is what happens when men marry gold-diggers..they end up like this guy; no sex.Poonani Maker said:That's why you should always marry a horny gal, a horny gal. She should Look like she masturbates in her spare time.
I've found one like that. It's just a matter of me reeling her in closer. All these other superficial women can kiss my ass!
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.