I'm not even that excited about sex anymore, but even so it is an important part of a healthy relationship. I honestly don't know what I would do if sex became an "issue" in a relationship (outside of being an effect of a larger problem such as a legitimate fight). Actually, I do know what i would do. I would look at the situation briefly and analyze whether or not there might be a MEDICAL reason behind it, and if not I would proceed to head for the door.ketostix said:Maybe the sex was too good for her to withhold short of a clean break . That's been my experience too, but I can see if the relationship went on for several years or was in a marriage there could be a withholding of sex.
The one relationship i had where the sex tapered off I confronted her about it, and when she answered honestly that she "just wasn't feeling it anymore" I promptly made my exit.
Bottom line- either the desire is there and she is using sex to manipulate (which luckily I have not experienced), or the desire is simply gone. Either way it's a losing proposition that you need to get out of sooner than later.