"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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You were in a dream I had....

n2o666

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Probably isn't new but I haven't seen it posted recently and I am new to all this. This tip is a variation on the one where you tell a woman that you know something about them and then keep changing the subject and thus "hooking" them and increasing their interest level.

All you need to do is say, SMS, email to a woman you already know (be it friend or someone you are dating in the early stages):

"You were in one of my dreams last night, it was really freaky".

It is important that you drop it in casually and then change the subject or say this as you are leaving or at the end of the SMS/Email. Also be careful not to frame it as:

"I had a dream about you last night". (In my oppinion this sounds a bit AFC'ish and makes them think that you are thinking about them quite a lot, which to me isn't good, also sets the wrong frame).

Next time they see you they will probably have been thinking about the supposed dream that you had with them in it. They will have been thinking about it and analysing different situations that could of occured.

You can either keep teasing them when you meet/SMS/Email them next and this will build tension (you know how woman are ;-) ). Or you can use it to go into quite a few different methods;

1) Push+pull
2) Distorted time frames
3) Elicit values
4) Story telling

etc....

The benefit of using a dream is that by their nature anything can happen in a dream and can be easily dismissed if she responds with a bad reaction.

Apologies if this is old material, just hadn't seen it before. Have already field tested it with about three woman this week with good results.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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DjDreamer

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That's a good technique if your a good actor.

It's sort of like the "you remind me of someone" technique...
 

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NO, Don't do this. I did something like this in person and the next time I saw her, she became more distant. If you're going to try to enter some sort of "fantasy thought" in her mind - try something happy and neutral like "I had a dream where I saw this girl whose face I didn't recognize but I kinda knew her.. she was dancing in a field of flowers" - she'll think HMMM in a good way. If you said "I saw a girl in my dreams... and I think she had your face dancing in the flowers" she will think you are obsessing about her.
 

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If you tell a woman you saw her in your dreams...

A naive woman would think, "this guy is a mystic"
An intelligent woman would think, "now that's a real cheesy pick up line...this guy just wants to get in my pants"

N20666, if you wish to discuss women showing up in your dreams, it's best you be vague about it...dream her but don't let her know you dream her...don't show obsession...
 
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