"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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You want to learn how to conversate with women?

JasonR

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Go Speed-Dating.

Only having 3 mins to talk to a girl is the best thing in the world, it motivates you to number close quickly, and by the 10th girl, you'll soon learn exactly what to say, and how to say it, because the 9 previous girls will have said no when you asked for their numbers.
Theres no embarresment, theres no awkwardness because you HAVE to change women every 3 mins.

It also means you dont get obsessed talking to one girl all night long and end up talking yourself into her LBJF zone, and if a girl is actually interested in you, it will annoy her to see you walk off and talk to other girls. (although the purpose of this isnt to actually date any of the women that attend these things as they all have something fundamentally wrong, or else they wouldnt be there)

The purpose is to learn how to talk confidently, with sophistication and with poise.

Jump in at the deep end, you'll soon learn to swim.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Ever onward

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I would love to give this try but I'm not sure if my town is big enough to have functions like this. Maybe it will catch on here if it gets more popular.
 
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