"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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You should want companionship, not a relationship

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One of the things guys get a lot of advice on is how to act, maintain, and survive a relationship. This type of thinking is very weak. If the man 'works' on the relationship he is focusing on her and how to make the woman happy, being subservient to her instead of making the world a better place. It's is up to the female to want, work and maintain the relationship. The man should want companionship and sex. He should not 'want' a relationship. He should be out there making a name for himself while the female comes along for the ride.

Your job is not to maintain the relationship. It is to increase your value to society. Relationship advice should only be for women. :)
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Most of the advice I see here is not on how to maintain a relationship. It's on how to maintain your frame in the relationship I.e. not end up with your balls in a jar.
 
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