"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
You should read this.
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Buck Rogers
Don Juan
ObieJuan
Senior Don Juan
As I think more and more about this, I begin to ponder various thing's.
Essentially, I am worried about advancing too quickly. The whole situation to me is rather confusing, sad that I must come here and explain my problems over and over but it helps me cope with the situation, and it gives me a little boost of confidence when I sit down and write out my situation. The bad part is that I might be thinking about it too much.
Even after the few recommended thing's here, they really are not guiding me in any certain direction.
We have been friend's for a while, and she does not know that I like her. Well I cant say that for sure because im not her, but more than likely she probably think's we are just friend's. how the hell do I advance! I am afraid to do anything drastic....but if that's all that you guys can advise, I might as well just do it. Find out if shes interested, if not than I could have just burned any chances. Im curious as to if I should bust a move now, or keep slowwwwwly progressing.
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