“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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"You should hook up with our friend."

MVPlaya

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So a couple days ago I was at a party at my frat house when a girl randomly started a conversation with me about my shirt. We talked a little, and I joked, and she asked:

"Are you one of those guys who goes out to find girls to hook up with?"

This kind of knocked me off balance, as I wasn't sure how to reply.

"Haha, I live here, just out to have a fun time."

"Well, cause you should totally hook up with our friend, and she's hot too."


How in the **** do you respond to that? The friend was hot. But I feel like I'm being ****-tested / tricked, and there is this awkwardness of "shouldn't the friend make that call?" Its just weird since I'm generally trying Mystery Method and it seemed I was being Gunwitched in some form.

My question is this: 'if you have someone make blatant sexual come ons like that, how do you respond?'
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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"Actually I'm saving myself for marriage..."

"I get that a lot..."

"Sign me up!"

Just have fun with it!
 

oakraiderz2

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Originally posted by flexion_
"Sign me up!"

Just have fun with it!
Haha, thats awesome. FUN is numero one!
 

john_1234

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i've had that happen to me a couple of times. one time i was talking to this hottie and after several minutes, she brings up her "hot friend," asks if i'm single and if i'd be interested in her. when girls pull **** like this, are they for real? is this "hot friend" just make believe
 

spider_007

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i had that hapen to me twice in a club, but it was THE GUY that said it (he was in the groop). He was like: "see that brunette that came with us, go talk to her, she is looking for somebody" i was like, whaterver (no balls)
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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