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Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

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The words come later. The impression comes first.

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You should always deny that youre playing games right?

kingkong98

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like if a girl asks why am i playing games like ignoring her calls or flirtting with other girls
 

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kingkong98 said:
like if a girl asks why am i playing games like ignoring her calls or flirtting with other girls
I don't think it really matters. Actions speak louder than words. If you're playing women, they will notice, not through words but through actions.

If you notice, men who walk around claiming to have sex with many women usually HAVEN'T had sex with many women. Especially those men dumb enough to brag INFRONT of other women.

I've always kept my words classy, and let my actions do the talking.
 

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Mmm, I think he meant if you should admit you played games with her, in the term of doing the kind of stuff that Cosmo recommends it's readers.

I guess there's a time for everything. Say, you've been dating for 6 months, or so, so you gained the confidence to say it, and you know she's into you, you could say "When we started dating I really wanted to see you, but refrained from calling to spark your interest".

I don't think it's negative, done in the right context.
 

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Mmm, I think he meant if you should admit you played games with her, in the term of doing the kind of stuff that Cosmo recommends it's readers.

I guess there's a time for everything. Say, you've been dating for 6 months, or so, so you gained the confidence to say it, and you know she's into you, you could say "When we started dating I really wanted to see you, but refrained from calling to spark your interest".

I don't think it's negative, done in the right context.
 
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