"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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You should always deny that youre playing games right?

kingkong98

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like if a girl asks why am i playing games like ignoring her calls or flirtting with other girls
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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kingkong98 said:
like if a girl asks why am i playing games like ignoring her calls or flirtting with other girls
I don't think it really matters. Actions speak louder than words. If you're playing women, they will notice, not through words but through actions.

If you notice, men who walk around claiming to have sex with many women usually HAVEN'T had sex with many women. Especially those men dumb enough to brag INFRONT of other women.

I've always kept my words classy, and let my actions do the talking.
 

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Mmm, I think he meant if you should admit you played games with her, in the term of doing the kind of stuff that Cosmo recommends it's readers.

I guess there's a time for everything. Say, you've been dating for 6 months, or so, so you gained the confidence to say it, and you know she's into you, you could say "When we started dating I really wanted to see you, but refrained from calling to spark your interest".

I don't think it's negative, done in the right context.
 

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Mmm, I think he meant if you should admit you played games with her, in the term of doing the kind of stuff that Cosmo recommends it's readers.

I guess there's a time for everything. Say, you've been dating for 6 months, or so, so you gained the confidence to say it, and you know she's into you, you could say "When we started dating I really wanted to see you, but refrained from calling to spark your interest".

I don't think it's negative, done in the right context.
 
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