TheGameMaster
Don Juan
- Joined
- Jun 10, 2008
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Having moved to university, I have met alot of guys and have been open and looking to find more good male buddies, much like we all should be. You can never have enough friends. And in terms of finding other people with the common interest in self/life improvement, I am really struggling to find anyone. So many people are accepting mediocrity in their lives, living the same life day after day. Basically just accepting their current reality and not striving for better. Because of this, I am pretty lonely quite alot. Out of my uni mates, I am the only one who wants things to improve all the time and it drives me mad. I just went to dinner with them and they stopped by at the bookies to waste a load of money on a virtual game of roulette. I walked home by myself, gambling like that is well desperate. Its not that I think I am better than them, I just see the world in a different, more positive light and I can't seem to find like minded people that I can help to grow, and that can help me to grow too, having loads of fun along the way! Which brings me to the point of this thread. People genuinely striving for better are damn rare. If you are following even 10% of the info on this site, then you are in a position to be streets ahead of 99% of other guys; not that you should compare yourself to other people. Thats external validation. So from what you have learned here, always remember that you are probably the most unique guy in your city/area and treat yourself as such. There are hot girls everywhere, but guys like you only come along once in every X thousand guys she meets. Remember, you are THE man, so don't be forgetting it in a hurry.