"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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You Pus$ies Are Supposed To Be Men

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A man!

That is your birthright. That is your honor. That is what you are.

Today's society has whipped the average male into a submissive piece of shlt. Today, most people spend their entire lives trying to become men. Guys back in the days were men the minute they were born. Tsk tsk.

An equation:

Dominant=Power=Man

You need to be dominant in your relationship. You need to take charge, make the plans, make the decisions, not take shlt from ANYONE, be ambitious, and do it all with finesse.

All these tips on pick up lines, c&f lines, nlp, and other useless crap is no substitute for dominance. You are just trying to win the approval of the girl.

So do this:
Do a cold appraoch
Why?
Because it is FUN
Know what you are doing: you want to fvck the girl. Don't be shy of this fact. The girl knows this even before you make a move.
If things don't go well, you were either a submissive piece of shlt pretending to be a man or she's not good enough for you. Either way, you'll never see her again.
If you are successful, as you should be, you just got a potential fvck buddy. Congradulations.

But what do you say? Where to go on dates? What to wear? When to call?

HA HA. Slap yourself. You are not trying to win approval. Get that fact clear.

YOU ARE NOT TRYING TO WIN APPROVAL

YOU ARE NOT TRYING TO WIN APPROVAL

YOU ARE NOT TRYING TO WIN APPROVAL

YOU ARE NOT TRYING TO WIN APPROVAL

YOU ARE NOT TRYING TO WIN APPROVAL

YOU ARE NOT TRYING TO WIN APPROVAL

YOU ARE NOT TRYING TO WIN APPROVAL

You are a man, hopefully. EXPERIMENT.

This forum was not created to babysit your as$. You need to go out there and experience failure many times before you taste success. Most importantly, pick yourself up time and time again. And never hold back.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I'd bet most guys don't even have their own approval :rolleyes:

Either that, or they're terrified of their own potential.
 
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This "Be a Man" stuff is all fine and well, but you can "be a Man" to a woman who has no sexual interest in you, and you will merely mastrubate that night in bed with more dignity!
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Setting aside the content of the post, I've always laughed at the 'manlihood' of guys using thread titles such as this one just to get someone to read their thread.

Just my opinion.
 

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imo a great elaboration of this topic can be found within the community.


start off with Jvesti's
The Introduction of "T" Theory/Natural Game.

see what pook says every skinny guy should know.

read about Ojete's thoughts on sexuality projection and building your natural desire for sex.

wanna know about "THE way to get laid?" Gunwitch method is for you.

and last, but definately not least, the grand daddy post on being a full-fledged, testosterone pumped MAN. Pook's The Secret of the Jerk.

these are my favorite "embrace your manhood" posts. if anyone would like to add theirs, please do.

enjoy.

-SLB
 
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