"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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You Pus$ies Are Supposed To Be Men

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A man!

That is your birthright. That is your honor. That is what you are.

Today's society has whipped the average male into a submissive piece of shlt. Today, most people spend their entire lives trying to become men. Guys back in the days were men the minute they were born. Tsk tsk.

An equation:

Dominant=Power=Man

You need to be dominant in your relationship. You need to take charge, make the plans, make the decisions, not take shlt from ANYONE, be ambitious, and do it all with finesse.

All these tips on pick up lines, c&f lines, nlp, and other useless crap is no substitute for dominance. You are just trying to win the approval of the girl.

So do this:
Do a cold appraoch
Why?
Because it is FUN
Know what you are doing: you want to fvck the girl. Don't be shy of this fact. The girl knows this even before you make a move.
If things don't go well, you were either a submissive piece of shlt pretending to be a man or she's not good enough for you. Either way, you'll never see her again.
If you are successful, as you should be, you just got a potential fvck buddy. Congradulations.

But what do you say? Where to go on dates? What to wear? When to call?

HA HA. Slap yourself. You are not trying to win approval. Get that fact clear.

YOU ARE NOT TRYING TO WIN APPROVAL

YOU ARE NOT TRYING TO WIN APPROVAL

YOU ARE NOT TRYING TO WIN APPROVAL

YOU ARE NOT TRYING TO WIN APPROVAL

YOU ARE NOT TRYING TO WIN APPROVAL

YOU ARE NOT TRYING TO WIN APPROVAL

YOU ARE NOT TRYING TO WIN APPROVAL

You are a man, hopefully. EXPERIMENT.

This forum was not created to babysit your as$. You need to go out there and experience failure many times before you taste success. Most importantly, pick yourself up time and time again. And never hold back.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I'd bet most guys don't even have their own approval :rolleyes:

Either that, or they're terrified of their own potential.
 
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This "Be a Man" stuff is all fine and well, but you can "be a Man" to a woman who has no sexual interest in you, and you will merely mastrubate that night in bed with more dignity!
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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Setting aside the content of the post, I've always laughed at the 'manlihood' of guys using thread titles such as this one just to get someone to read their thread.

Just my opinion.
 

strong like bull

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imo a great elaboration of this topic can be found within the community.


start off with Jvesti's
The Introduction of "T" Theory/Natural Game.

see what pook says every skinny guy should know.

read about Ojete's thoughts on sexuality projection and building your natural desire for sex.

wanna know about "THE way to get laid?" Gunwitch method is for you.

and last, but definately not least, the grand daddy post on being a full-fledged, testosterone pumped MAN. Pook's The Secret of the Jerk.

these are my favorite "embrace your manhood" posts. if anyone would like to add theirs, please do.

enjoy.

-SLB
 
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